I asked a guy on a date, and he said yes

If it’s not clear on your profile, you’re Black and queer, I’m not following back.

I had some butt with a side of honey last night!

Good morning. Finally going to work. I haven’t worked for almost 2 weeks (12 days). I nearly forgot I had a job.

I mean 🤷🏽

A little bit. One of my jobs I worked at was Sonic.

Not my job gave me the week of my birthday and Christmas off, even though I only asked for my birthday, Christmas, and the day after Christmas off. I’ll take it!

Maybe I need to start a Black LGBTQ card game night 👀

Ditto, and like I heard someone say, gospel is R&B for one man 😂

Morning baby daddy

It’s been about four days since I nutted!

Exactly, I will gladly say you are no longer a guest, and you'd better go in there and get it.

I listened to it again today!

Paying housing subscriptions early still hurts 😩😩😩

I played spin bottle for the first time last night (I’m on a cabin trip) and the little Black gay boy inside was happy. It’s little things like this about being queer that we’re delayed in experiencing.

I don’t think y'all understand the crush I have on this man!

@drjosevalentine.me it just came on and I’m grooving.

I have Tupac and the cast of Hamilton in the same library

His flight will be paid for

I have a king-size bed. Stop playing with me.

Protect the confidence you’re discovering at all costs because these men will try to knock it down. I’m rebuilding my confidence after my last partner made a joke about me having scoliosis.

I want a boyfriend to annoy

This is not a real artist. It's AI.

When y’all be taking it in missionary, why do y'all leave your socks on?

As someone who is non-monogamous, you don’t have to be a strict anything sexually. I can date another bottom, vers, vers top, etc., just be honest about your desires. In my experience, dudes haven’t been truthful about who they are, which has caused issues.

Is this depression, or just my nervous system responding?

Someone reposted my last post, so it’s gone.

Some have assumed we’re a couple; he’s my best friend. He’s taught me so much about love. I’ve told him that if I never marry, I can still say I’ve loved because of him. He’s the reason I believe soulmates aren’t only reserved for romantic partners.

Rice and cabbage for dinner, and chocolate chip cookies for dessert.

I need my friends in my bed. This bed is too fucking big for me being in this bitch by myself. In fact, I may host a slumber party for my 39th birthday next month!

They called me a ham! 🤣🤣🤣

And I know everyone doesn’t agree, but sex with friends can be the best because living in a hook-up culture where shame is attached, friends can be a safe space. I’m not saying fuck the friend group, but I’ve had a friend or two where sex happened, and it was the safest form of intimacy I had.

I need to be cuddled

Congratulations NYC. I can go to bed now!

Not me telling my mom I’m non-monogamous, and she said, “Did I really need to tell her that?” like she didn’t know. She really be eating me up! 😭😭😭

Why don’t y’all be liking your dicks sucked when y’all pull out?

I bought a year's supply of Kleenex puffs plus lotion with the Vicks

I echoed this morning

And our clocks fall back one hour tonight

When you all say 'cuddles and scary movies,' I really need to be held. In fact, we’re spending the night together, you ain’t leaving me after watching that traumatic shit!

Adulting is being happy you got your power bill below $90!

This is what I want. I want to be a third and fly in to spend time with the couple and take my ass home afterward.

Both

I don’t know why y’all don’t understand this!

If you live in the DMV area, be sure to check out Fremont Ave at Arena Stage, which runs until November 23rd. My friends and I made it a boys' night out!