My favorite so far!

I know I’m late, I watched both of these (I’m not a horror fan), but these had me stressed. Can we talk about it in the comments? I don’t want to spoil it for anyone who has not seen the movies.

I watched Catwoman tonight, and I forgot how much I liked this movie. Don’t come for me. We all have a movie that we secretly love that’s disliked by the masses.

I completed/passed my annual training for work, and my 11th year with the company is officially underway.

Y’all sleeping in hoodies tonight, too?

My therapist said that, to be an anchor, you have to sink to keep the balance of the relation(ship), because you’re their stability, and when you stop being their anchor, where does their stability come from?

I thought it was over because they didn’t respond until last night via voicemail (mind you, I'm moving out next month), so it took them a month to see my email 👀 Well, I just sent an email with a written amount and two other concessions, including a request for a couple of months of no rent.

I have a date to the art show! 🥰🥰🥰

Someone telling me they feel safe with me is one of the highest compliments I’ll ever receive, and I received that compliment today.

I’ve started taking my vacation in Feb, because you know, Black History Month, and now I have all of next month off.

Sister Act 2: Back in the Habit is on BET (CST)

In bed before 9 during MAL weekend, am I ready to be a husband 👀👀

I don’t have a power bill this month. I have a $3 credit!

My barber, who is a straight Black man, gave me a Black gay man encouragement to dating again! ☺️☺️☺️

Good morning. I got a chance to wake up and journal out here.

I really was too lenient with my past partners because what I needed from them I’m receiving now without having to ask.

Lawd, I got picked up and tossed over his shoulder twice this weekend.

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New Year’s Day (2026) Peach cobbler and brownies

So, the food I made on NYE and the dessert I made on New Year’s Day, I brought some over to the guy I’m seeing, and there's only a corner of the peach cobbler left. He’s been fucking it up! 💅💅💅

One of my friends came over, and I fed them 🥰🥰🥰

The brownies are done

Peach cobbler is done. I just took it out the oven!

Couldn’t decide between brownies or peach cobbler, well, the thing about being an adult with free will is you can do both!

Dinner is ready

I’m thinking of smothered chicken, rice and gravy, cabbage, and cornbread.

Whew, it’s almost midnight time for bed💤

I knew this was going to be some mess! Also available on YouTube

Also available on YouTube

For us Black gays. It’s available on YouTube

@uglybennie.bsky.social Happy Birthday🎊🎁🎂🎈🎉

8 episodes and it’s on Netflix if you’re into series about how we’re all connected by a single choice.

39 today. One more year until I’m in the 40 and up good bussy club!

Waking up with a 103° the day before my birthday is a bit dramatic

Whew, I’m so glad that guy I matched with earlier this year on Tinder, who was a Nicki Minaj fan, didn’t go anywhere

Because my leasing office just sent me my lease renewal today, which I was supposed to receive last month, and I presented to them the concessions for an apartment I applied for, offering two months off. We are now in negotiations because they want me to stay!

I don’t chase and don’t chase me.

Chatting with @epereza22.blacksky.app the most. www.madebyolof.com/bluesky-wrap...

He was telling me about The Boy Is Mine tour

I toured another apt today because my leasing office still hasn’t sent me a lease renewal, and this building is offering two free months of rent after the first month. Lease renewals are supposed to be sent 90 days before the current lease expires. My lease ends in 61 days. 👀👀👀

Also, the words are: POSITIVE/UNDETECTABLE or NEGATIVE. NOT “clean” or “unclean/dirty.” Thank you. 🤗

I spent my Friday going to the dentist, touring an apartment, mailing my new nephew his Christmas pajamas, eating lunch, taking a cat nap, and attending a play! A day to yourself really can be the way to go!

I don’t wake up holding’ another man, walking down the street holdin’ some man's hands. That’s gay, ok! That ain’t me.

Ain’t nobody bendin’ me over

How are you gonna ask me a question like that?

There’s a woman on TikTok who was preparing for an art exhibition using belts, and one of the pieces was titled “Because I love you,” and another is titled “Watch your tone” and baby 🥺🥺🥺🥺 www.tiktok.com/t/ZTrC7fYb9/