Also "can trans spaces please stop being like, three degrees of separation from 'bomb that kills transmascs' people"

Blah blah blah *insert petty nitpicky commentary because a post that was ultimately good phrased things imperfectly around trans mascs* blah blah blah

Sex-negative trans women are a huge fucking trip. Gotta roll my eyes when I see a trans woman trying to make fun of a furry for being into any given kink. Transphobes see you as sex perverts, you’re not gonna get acceptance from them by throwing kinksters under the bus. They think you’re the same.

Cis men-the best thing you can do to dismantle the patriarchy is to support marginalized men and masculinity. In addition to supporting women/femininity. It is vitally important to do these things in tangent. THAT is what breaks the patriarchy.

solomonskalozub.blogspot.com/2025/11/tran... I'm expecting uh, mixed responses to this one, but whatever. What's media analysis if I don't get under some people's skin?

When the next truscum/transmed rebranding happens and they claim "we were never mean to nonbinary people/we never claimed nonbinary people weren't trans/we never talked shit about people who don't/can't transition/etc".

and I would love to just, like, be wrong about this but I see it hurting trans men so often who feel villainized and unwelcome in trans spaces because of this rhetoric that paints them as dangerous who feel they can't defend themselves without being painted as transmisogynist

queerness is so varied, and so case by case, that you can't make such sweeping analysis that just flatly paints nbs and trans men as being an oppressor class towards trans women, that's not how it works at all

This, solidarity. Trans masc, trans femme, and all of us on the non-binary spectrum. Those that want or don’t want HRT. Pre-op, post-op, non-op. Dysphoric or not dysphoric. None of that matters outside our own individual journeys. We’re all trans and need to stand together, not turn on each other.

Just to show you the sort of stuff I deal with from transmedicalists, and what sort of people they are, here is one that came after me today.

solomonskalozub.blogspot.com/2025/11/tran... It's a new day, have some new media analysis!

Like dawg, your whole purpose was for a safe space for LGBT people especially trans people. Yet, these guidelines would even potentially block discussions of diy hrt. Its so vague. Does discussing how to arm others count as "how to procure dangerous weapons"?

Read the northsky tos and guidelines and im begging for yall to hire a pr person or technical writer. It reads like a fanfic writer trying to speak legalese while whatever guidelines that do exist are just vibe based.

Schrodinger's Enby: at once a completely hidden, gender-conforming stealth "queer" who is invisible, looks just like their AGAB, blending into cishet society and evading all prejudice, AND SOMEHOW ALSO a garishly-dressed freakazoid that scares all the normies into voting Republican and banning HRT

it matters a lot to me because the "youre not really trans if you don't go all the way", the entire question of "am i girl enough tho???", is what KEPT ME from transitioning myself because i didn't think i needed it that bad. it kept me in the closet for decades. i can never get that time back.

20 years ago the truscum were like "if you haven't gone through all the surgery and jumped through the existing system then youre Not Really Trans, youre just a weirdo" and now the New Truscum are like "if you haven't DIYed hormones from Vanautu you're not really trans and just ✨🌈VaLiD✨😘"

Yeah! Yeah! Like holy shit, bodily autonomy and self determination are fucking vital but there are some who actually do say shit like not looking the part is **harmful** to those who do Which is literally "I am not like those freaks" Hatred towards gendernonconformity as a concept. Fuuuuuuuuuuck

if non-transitioning nonbinary people who do nothing with their gender but change pronouns are so transphobia-exempt and privileged and "not really trans", why are they blamed for every mass shooting & why are they/them pronouns the main focus of every political attack ad and standup comedian's act

solomonskalozub.blogspot.com/2025/11/tran... I have decided to post it serially, as it would be wild to post a book-length blog post, I will release it as a free to download ebook when it is all done, but these posts will also remain on my blog!

when people have deep seated anger for tresspasses against them sexual or physical, a tendency i deeply dislike is when they generalize and assume everybody who has experienced hardship not only feel but cope exactly the same way they do and use it as a justification to lash out.

I really need to find/make a quick reference list or whatever about what transmascs have done/are doing Sometimes our erasure gets to the point that I start going down an existential spiral of "we have done nothing, contributed nothing, we are not here, our ripples don't reach beyond our own bubble"

I delayed transition a long time, thinking, this is just how life is (with dysphoria) because I didn't want to admit I had a problem. I had to admit I had a problem before I could access assistive tech to reduce the impact being trans was having on my life.

It's genuinely sad to see selfie posts from trans women asking for cis people specifically to rate how femme they look

Genuinely don't know how to convince people that they are not helping the harms of trans fems' hyper visibility and trans mascs'/nbs' invisibility by acting like trans = trans woman and/or that bigots don't actually hate trans mascs/we face virtually no issues, so why even bring us up?

I also am very slowly reading and enjoying this book. My attention is flitting, due to constant burn out, I used to be able to finish something and not bounce between things, so not having finished isn't a sign of how much I like something or how good it is. store.tenebrouspress.com/products/fro...

I very rarely watch animation or read comics, but I do have this comic book by a trans guy that I live very much. www.amazon.com/Chromatic-Fa...

I personally would appreciate it if the DIY evangelists were capable of acknowledging that there are still barriers to entry in a world where DIY exists but that's another matter

I don't care how long you've been HRT, I don't care how many surgeries you've had. You're still on the same team as the hairy trans woman in her 50s who's still on the waitlist for HRT or enby who don't want it. Their fight is your fight. They deserves as much respect and support as you do.

The whole cissexual and transmed shit had reaffirmed my stance that nobody hates trans people quite like other trans people. So many trans people want to be bigots so bad so they make up fuckass "woke" ways to be shitty to other queer people and feign ignorance when people call them out.

Here's a thing that I despise: When someone is outed as an abuser, TERF, terrible human, and ppl start going "I never liked them anyway" "I never found them funny" "They never wrote good things to begin with" and seriously shut the hell up. All of that is just to position you are superior and (cont)

If u never done so, please read hot allosatic load, esp if u consider urself an ally 2 trans & marginalized folk Labeling people who c value in that essay as abusive or untrustworthy is reflective of the tactics the essay discusses but don't just take our word 4 it thenewinquiry.com/hot-allostat...

Actual conversation I just had with one of KTP’s suppprters. They’re really doing the “Attempted murder? Now honestly what is that? Do they give a Nobel prize for attempted chemistry? Do they?!” Argument.

They see it as activism and that it's therefore ends-justify-means. There are a lot of people in this world who are bullies and desperately want to believe that they can be the first to find a way to use bullying for positive change, because it's easier to keep with that habit than doing real work

It's wild that so many people seem to think that being in the closet to your co-workers and/or family means that you are "choosing to stay outside of the community out of cowardice". If any such people are "outside of the community" it's because you refuse to let them.

This is the most fucked up thing. When I say “I am afraid to transition, especially considering the political environment right now,” the clique regularly tries to frame that as me claiming that “trans lives aren’t worth living” It’s the most disgusting misrepresentation I’ve ever seen.

I think this is a very good illustration of why the transmedicalists on this site are shitty people. A decent trans person would hear a fellow trans person say “I don’t feel safe to transition right now” and be supportive. The response from transmedicalists is to demonize and other them instead.

Just saw the terrible news that US Bishops just banned gender affirming care at Catholic hospitals. A reminder, from the reproductive justice front - For a lot of people, Catholic hospitals are their only option. Even places where they aren't, they sometimes set standard of care.

It feels like the people I know who have become victims of this sort of thing has only been growing and it makes me disgusted at the fellow trans people in my communities just eating this shit up to feel like heroes for ostracizing some trans girl they never met

You will never be welcomed into cis manhood with patriarchy and the hilarious thing is that being pressured to acknowledging your privilege, because you will be cut out of trans society if you did, is the least cis man thing that you could experience.

Stop letting your dysphoria throw the less privileged trans people under the bus. Stop talking about your privilege frankly, you are bad at it. Instead of giving cis patriarchy talking points, lift up the voices of less privileged trans people.

The logic error is not that trans women experience male privilege, the logic error is that trans men must, and nothing supports that evidence. You are making a logic error in defining what a man is, what patriarchy does, what privilege is.

It doesn't have to be that way. A trans man does not have a cis man's life. But it also betrays you as abusing your privilege (because almost every time you are white and relatively economically privileged.)

There are times (often) when I want to shake trans men and tell them to snap out of it. No, you do not experience the life of a cis man and your insitence that you do is detrimental to transmascs and also driven by dysphoria.

Me: “If you condemn Hot Allostatic Load, you are a danger, because you’re saying you’re willing to use Kiwifarms style tactics to mulch a trans woman over nothing, facts be damned” Transmedicalists: “We have to mulch Nerdskull! Start spreading Kiwifarms shit and other fake allegations about them!”

Apparently KTP and her friends have escalated to calling me a predator again over this post, without any sort of proof or even an alleged victim, just to show you exactly how important and relevant the message of the Hot Allostatic Load essay is They’re literally trying to do that to me now

Without downloading new pics, describe your gender: Is this cheating?

This is such a day for me to be ruminating on my trauma of being called a pedophile by a trans ex-friend who had also called another trans person a pedophile while a couple of my friends refused to even stop casually associating with them on social media for fear of backlash

Screaming about the injustice that a trans woman still draws breath, in response to her bringing up Hot Allostatic Load is... Certainly a look.

I mean, dig down deep enough, and you'll always hit TME/TMA discourse, and who gets to speak about what.

Also, can't help but be really fucking suspicious of somebody who loves to mulch trans women casting aspersions on an essay that talks about the harms of mulching trans women!