Foreshadowing/substitutes: a thumb in your mouth. Spit on your tongue. A plug in your arse.

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My intention is to strip you bare, make use of you appallingly, to the point of dismantling you, and then assist you with the reconstruction of yourself in an entirely new form.

For #MonochromeMonday: let’s play.

Master, I feel has the sound of henchman to villain. Daddy, the family connotation I find queasy. Lord, there are delusions of grandeur there. No—Sir is the honorific that sits best with me.

One of the less-recognised features of the intense Dominant-submissive relationship (and the harder-line Doms won’t acknowledge this) is that you take on certain aspects of each other’s natures. To some small extent, there’s an exchange of molecules.

Woke in the night. This is when I need to make use of you and spend myself back to sleep.

I have duty of care for her. In her desire to serve, she may jeopardise herself. It’s my responsibility to look after her and her body, the vehicle of her service.

[braces for follower count to hit zero]

Question: is there any interest in a middle-aged man posting photos of his body? Several beautiful women do that here, and I thought about redressing the balance. Comment or like. If there’s any degree of interest, I’ll post something.

Many images of this nature are so slick and processed, they have you wondering if the dreaded AI is involved. I vastly prefer a snatched, raw, grainy picture like this.

120 looking for the easter egg

Anneè Olofsson, Unfamiliar

Catherine Deneuve in La Cagna (1972)

The decisions we make at night aren’t always the best ones. But they’re the truest ones.

The minute we met, I sensed her need to be ruined.

My goal isn’t getting you to give me things. It’s your wanting to give them.

Reflection, or anticipation

On-brand

Trust is the element that dispels fear and resistance. If she trusts you, she’ll give you everything.

She is not a stranger. Dominant and submissive are each other, reflected in a mirror. Neither can exist independently, and each completes the other.

A peek.

All mod cons

Marianne Faithfull © Jean-Pierre Bonnotte

Held, in every sense.

The problem I have with maybe the majority of D/s posts is the undertaste of “ look at this hot piece / look what I can get this bitch to do”. The value of any D/s connection (which is hard to capture in photos, I grant you) is the opening up, the trust, the mutual dependency of the participants.

Please be seated.

Easter. The Catholic calendar’s most D/s season, with submission, stripping, humiliation, degradation, flogging, pain, annihilation, release and redemption.

The importance of mirrors

I don’t have a preferred body type, or a physical ideal. Once the emotional and psychological connection is made, her body is what obsesses me, whatever its configuration.

Der Weg ist das Ziel.

The fine touch of a professional.

Your most dexterous body part is actually your tongue. It can unpick locks.

Lying naked on my floor, she looked beached, or shipwrecked. It was my duty to salvage her.

This isn’t about me, my pleasure, at least not for the most part. My role is to enable you, to unlock you. To let you switch off and free yourself as you want to be freed. I am here to let you realise yourself.

Sentir-te gaudir serà sempre el més gran dels meus plaers.

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