Monochrome Monday and just enjoying the vibe of hanging out in your underwear

Sit. Stay. Good boy

We’ve made it through another hump day. Let’s all relax and plan out our weekend.

If I had magical powers I would create a transfer service where trans men that are wanting top surgery can list themselves in a catalogue and trans femmes can peruse and select the ones they want and then just magic the chest swap. I would be the first client for this offering. Same for bottom swaps

Hoppy Easter, life is short don’t be afraid to have fun and be silly.

The mid-day desire to be bound to a St Andrews Cross.

I will continue to understand myself and how gender relates to that for all my life. Being trans and all the fabulous friends and acquaintances that I have that are trans have been so enriching to my life. I’m still figuring things out for myself. Trans folks always have a space in my photography.

The realization that one of the biggest reasons I haven’t pursued HRT is more because of the state of the world than my actual desire to start.

Self pleasure is important. If you don’t know what brings you pleasure how are you going to be able to express to your partner(s) what you need. A healthy relationship with sex and your body will directly contribute to a healthy sexual relationship with the partners you engage with.

I don’t know why I even bother with labeling images when the crappy censor software they have running flags everything as explicit. A naked body isn’t sexual. It can be involved in an explicit sexual activity, but the nature of being naked is not intrinsically sexual. People can just be naked.

Sometimes clothes can feel too constricting and you just have to break free of their bonds.

The weekend is here. Time to slip into something g comfortable and enjoy the down time.

Good boys get scritches

Just a little reminder in case you forgot.

It’s hump day. The perfect occasion to be in the warmth while watching snowfall.

For those at TBRU this week I hope you also remembered to feed and water your pups.

I had considered going to TBRU as a vendor this year with my photography business. Timing didn’t work out to be able to attend though.

My pixie cut Haranir with trans highlights is ready to protect the grove. Fun fact: Their shape shifting nature is why I found I gravitate so closely to Druid. The ability to take on the form I’m feeling at the moment is a direct mirror of my gender queer/fluid nature.

We’re not one thing or the other. We are many parts that make a whole. Out of comfort and safety I show one side openly day after day, but that’s just the part I feel safe to show in a world that is hostile to my whole being and community.

I love what I do for work. That said I’d be elated if the world would calm the absolute fuck down and stop being such a shit show allow me to return to running my portrait business full time again celebrating bodies of all types and creating gorgeous art for people again.

First Sunday at the new place where I don’t have anything but relaxing to do.

Take a thousand naked pictures of yourself now. One day you will look back on your body with much kinder eyes and say, “I was gorgeous.”

Final self portrait session at my old place before packing up all my camera gear. All bodies are deserving of being documented and you are no exception to that.

Monday’s are for monochromatic portraits.

Take time to just let your body be at rest without pressure to be productive or staying busy.

Mondays are for lounging.

It really sucks that if my best friend and his boyfriend were to get married it would cost the boyfriend his disability payments. There is a burden on disabled people that doesn’t make any sense to exist. Their need for assistance doesn’t diminish because they found someone that want to marry.

I used to believe sex, especially self pleasure, was this thing that was supposed to be sacred. (thanks religious upbringing) as my relationship with my body and sexuality have grown I’ve found that a healthy relationship with your body truly helps with building a stronger foundation with partners

Recently I’ve been more into briefs than any other style. What’s your preferred style to wear?

Work day is done. Time to slip into something comfortable

Contrary to what some people feel about it; I actually don’t mind Mondays.

It’s been a long time in the making; I enjoy the life I’ve built.

Lazy weekends are the best.

Until this weather decides what it wants to do I’m just going to be wearing this.

Some days you just grab some fabric and dance without a care. Just enjoying the moment.

There’s a lot going on in the world. Self care is vital right now.

Most of the time lately I just want to disappear to the middle of woods and start a naked commune with my queer friends and escape all this bullshit going on in the world.

What do you mean we have to actually leave the house again. Ugh fine!

I’ll say this for being bound to the house because of the weather. My need to do laundry this week has been nonexistent.

This weather has me reminiscing about sitting poolside with a class of wine and soaking in the sun.

I feel like all we see are fully erect penises. They spend far more time flaccid though, so why don’t we normalize seeing them at all stages? Why did we come to a place where the only way people feel comfortable letting them be seen is if they are semi or fully erect?

Now to just wait out the ice and cold by staying home all weekend.

I do more than just celebrate bodies and photograph humans. I’m also a gamer. Midnight is almost here. Do you play? What’s your main class?

It’s a grey sweats day. It’s too cold to be bothered with putting anything else on and leaving the house.

The way this weather keeps swinging back to the 70s. I’m going to have to go lounge by the pool and celebrate hump day.

Time to celebrate another tummy Tuesday. Give your belly a little love today and let it be kissed by the sun.

It’s hump day. Let your tush see the sun.

It’s a new year. Treat yourself by taking new nudes to document your body and celebrate who you are. Let those 2025 nudes retire to the archives.

As we wrap up 2025 remember this; you are enough. As you are right now. You don’t need to change who you know yourself to be to be enough. You already are.

Remember to give your body space to exist and give it compassion. It’s done so much to allow yourself to experience this life in a way that is unique only to you.