PLEASE STOP making it seem like turning 40 means giving up on your dreams. It’s not normal. It’s limiting. It’s wrong. This is the age to thrive, not shrink. I’ll be 42 February 15 and I couldn’t be more proud of it !!

I cherish Dead Roses as they live between the pages of this chapter of life. I believe, A fresh Rose is loved for its beauty but the dead one is beyond beauty. A fresh Rose is smelled for its scent but a dead one for the memories. 🥀

Thou I admit there is still parts of that shell I looked at and wondered was it all real. It felt real, it felt like “Home” then I realize it was a reminder for all of the ways I’m never to allow myself to be loved again. I will never allow myself to not love ME !!

Once I got to the root the only way I know how to address it is head on. So I did just that picked myself up. And pushed thru !!!

I was redirected I was recentered I was realigned I was broken But I allowed myself to break So I can get to the root of the problem

I looked at myself and didn’t recognize me. I had to leave Atlanta and come back home to Philadelphia. At first I was so defeated by it because I felt like at this old age what the hell I failed !! But then it clicked

My biggest lesson for 2024 was let it go and that meant everything and everybody. I was completely broken to my core and fell apart unsure how or where to even begin to put me back together again.

Goodnight

This year should be named "things I never thought could happen"

I deserve to be loved. not liked, not lusted after, not settled for. loved.

Sigh

Tonight I went into the LGBTQ+ Hall Of Fame thanks to Council Member Rue Landau I’m so honored and so full 🥹❤️

I gotta start remembering to use this app

Red has always been my favorite color ❤️

Random but I guess it’s safe to say Ice Spice done melted. She came and went

Nothing frustrates me more than when someone calls and, after I pick up, they ask who I’m with. It feels like I'm constantly being put on the spot. So, I've decided that my new response will be, "I'm out." That way, there's no need for any questions—just call me back later.

I need something else to watch now on tv any suggestions?

Me on episode 5-7 of #AlexCross

Let me tell you something get on #AmazonPrime and watch #Cross Because whew !!! I legit sat here and watched every day episode !!!

I pay $100 😩😩

PSA: haircuts should last a month, 3 days is unacceptable.

I got an taste for some stuffed crust pizza and wings but whew lord at the same time I don’t feel good so that might not be a good mix

I like to brag about my age because 75% of the people I came out with didn’t make it i had older gay friends who didn’t play about me they made sure I stayed in school and my first job I ever had they made sure I was there. Nobody tried to take advantage of me and for that I’m thankful 🫶🏾🫶🏾

The other day 🍁 #Blacksky #BlackGaySky

Let me catch up on what I missed on the #BlueSkies #BlackSky

This has been a week man I tell you

New platform but same rules ‼️ This era is defined by: When I block, unfriend, or unfollow you, it’s not a mind game. I truly don't want to see your updates, and I’d appreciate if you stopped watching me too. It's straightforward—take it at face value.

Fall 🍂🍁

A lot of stuff ain’t really a secret. Just nobody’s business. Do what you want with that information.

I’m going to bed cause @beyonce is not bout to stress me out

Last night I had a light Friendsgiving and a lot of people are mad they weren’t invited. But honestly as I got older I realized that not every friend group mixes well together and that’s ok !!

Almost done cooking whew im wore OUT !!! Who told me to have a Friendsgiving I should have just went to get drinks and appetizers 🤣🤣🤣🤣

That first sip of coffee does wonders in the morning.

Oh hey! #AddBlackGaySky #BlackGaySky #BlackSky

ROLL CALL!! Reskeet if you’re in the 🏳️‍🌈 fam w/ #AddBlackGaySky

Only thing about new apps that is annoying is re building ya following from scratch

I need to be on someone’s island with great food and drinks, an amazing view, no internet, and no work!

Good Night live from #Philadelphia

I legit have to commit to this diet but it might have to wait until after new years

I’m actually hosting a Friendsgiving this year

Ok fresh start !!! Let’s build my community !!