祝大家国际妇女节快乐！ 愿你可以不必美丽不必年轻不必成功，可以不温柔不善良不正义，可以不被骚扰不被删帖不被炸号，可以没有婚姻没有子宫没有乳房，可以混乱不堪离经叛道，可以同柔共弱也可以披荆斩棘，你的选择被庆祝而不是被谈论，不同着、连接着、冲突着、抱持着。

From Co-Perception Life Drawing Workshop Hosted by Amber Model 樊扇

这个情人节，来加入一场特别的约会吧。我们将学习如何使用衣服进行捆绑，把分隔彼此的布料变成拉近距离和相互了解的亲密途径～欢迎大家！ Tying with clothes is back! This time with two sessions for you to select. Scan the code for info.

This will be a fine April. A very warm welcome to @tambaku.bsky.social and FaerieBruises to E-Flow! Stay tuned for some sensual and elegant Kinbaku.

Asia tour coming up! Workshops, performances & talks TBA soon. I'll be available to book for intimate sessions, private tuition and prof. collabs as well. Limited, so be quick!

A sample of my work today~ In ropes: Naomi Photographed by Amber, edited by me

缠绕（或交束）是我在绳缚中非常享受的事情，每每为我带来美妙的心流体验。在本期工作坊，我们将一起探索缠绕的愉悦，并认识许多绳缚中常用的基本绳结～一起来玩耍吧！

It’s like they finally discovered “上火”

去年术士在安亭路摔倒了两次，伤疤现在还刻在胳膊和手机壳上。在摔倒的过程中一度感觉时间过得很慢，总觉得有更多可以做的事情来减轻伤痛。期待在下一次摔倒前，我已经上了这珍贵一刻～推荐给大家！

It feels like I’m the Uncle Roger of Kinbaku. Whenever someone says “tension 3” or whatever I immediately have a headache and want to yell “just use feeling”. The real violence of numbering tension happens when it replaces the moment to moment exchanges between partners.

Instead of seeing tension as a structural necessity, we may approach it as a game that enriches our rope conversations. In this workshop, we will explore how to create interesting flows in a session by internationally embracing unstable and ever-changing tensions.

Anecdoche: 一个所有人都在讲话但没有人在听的对话

This is the scariest handle I’ve seen….

参加“心意”绳缚入门团体是什么样的体验？让我们来听听往期的伙伴们怎么说～ How does it feel to join our introduction to Shibari workshops? Let us hear from past participants :)

我一定是被安亭路诅咒了 今天又在这里摔倒了 摔得一点都不慢 这次的觉察是 还好有手机壳

今天久违地摔倒了，在印象里除了在舞蹈和格斗中摔倒，已经很久没有在坚硬的地面上摔跤了。不过一个惊喜的觉察是，坠落是一个如此缓慢的过程。意识到自己失去平衡，意识到自己即将摔倒，看到即将碰撞的表面，感受最先与马路接触的位置，每一个过程都有时间去觉察和思考。Instead of falling from grace, one can indeed fall with grace.

Stills from private session today

Quick early announcement: ESC- European Self-Tie Conference is happening July 11–13 at our beautiful house in Berlin 🏡🌳 2.5 days of in–person self–tying! @dasniyasommer.de @bunnydough.bsky.social @ceciferox.bsky.social will be there! Programme arrives April 😍💯 karada-house.de/events/esc-2...

Stills from my studio Photography by 宇晓

Throwback to last week’s birthday gathering~

I wish I knew this sooner….I get very angry at people’s chewing sounds and I try very hard to suppress them or apologise to loved ones for suddenly being frustrated. If Joel Berger’ hypothesis is supported, then my monophonic may actually help me with tying in a weird way.

New article on DeepSeek, large language models, hallucinations (bullshit), and Shibari: mp.weixin.qq.com/s/FoJqslFuxM...