i'm in this picture and i don't like it. 🤣

If @deviantollam hasn't seen this he should! https://youtube.com/shorts/bjTWv9GzD1k?si=P1v96w0wVQUmy2ug

Reading about Freud for a psychology class and as a trans woman, all i can say about the concept of penis envy is "HA HA HA HA HA pull the other one, it's got bells on!"

[UPol Resistance] Nice economy you have there, Trump and his billionaire cronies. Would be a shame if something happened to it. https://boingboing.net/2026/01/27/the-easiest-way-to-sink-trump-hitting-billionaires-portfolios-by-reducing-your-spending-on-technology.html #trump #uspol #resist

Remember when you were little and all the boys ran away from the girls saying not to touch them because girls have cooties? Well, i didn't believe it and i touched a girl. And yes, i caught the cooties. Cooties are incurable, though, and over time they slowly turn you into a girl. That's the […]

OK. Found my drag name. Connie Lingus

One of my closest friends had bottom surgery today and i am so thrilled for her! This is the kind of news that makes my day!

Palantir Technologies Customer Tech Support, reveals the new VR headset they must wear, when dealing with disgruntled customers;-P

Pet peeve time: It's spelled "ridiculous" folks, not "rediculous". Spelling it rediculous is ridiculous.

Been sitting in a bipolar support group all day talking to people. It feels really good to be able to talk to people about the stuff i live with and help them through their own rough spots. This is why i want to study psychology now. So i can give others the help that i needed when i was younger.

This inability to concentrate is killing me. i have an assignment due tonight. All i have to do is read and comment on two posts in a discussion forum for the class. That's it. 2 posts. And i just. Can't. DO. IT!

Holy crap, this so much!!!! https://www.transvitae.com/your-obsession-with-trans-bodies-is-the-whole-problem/ #trans #transgender

Do Chinese cowboys greet each other by saying "ni howdy"?

jesus christ that do be how it be, though Source: https://fxtwitter.com/deeoxie/status/1990380430739304547/

One thing about being hypomanic is that it makes my ADHD symptoms go BRRRRRRRR! My ability to concentrate seems to have been shot, burned, chopped up into little pieces, buried under a full moon, composted, and used as fertilzer to grow 17 different varieties of kudzu #bipolar #adhd

[Post about the erasure of intersex status] Did you know that it is a SCIENTIFIC FACT that all shades of grey can be sorted into black and white by a simple photometric test! Less than 50% albedo = black. More than 50% albedo = white. Simple. No more grey area. Next up: the rainbow. Did you […]

You matter! Unless you moving at speed of light. Then you energy.

It feels like the older i get the younger i act.

i might be feeling a little hypomanic right now, but i just have to say that being a woman and embracing my autism are both really amazing things that have made my life genuinely happy!

[cw coming out, conversion therapy, personal trauma] i am seeking advice. How do you forgive someone who deliberately did something that hurt you very badly, later acted much better towards you, but still never acknowledged the earlier harm and died without ever apologizing? That's the […]

[USPol] It's time for the nation to acknolwedge the fact that Donald Trump is mentall unfit to be President of the United States. His obvious dementia, delusions, and paranoia, not to mention the hatred with which he views his fellow Americans, disqualify him from office. It is time for the […]

[talk about trauma dumping and why i do it] > In some cases, trauma dumping can be the result of a trauma response. When someone has experienced situations where they felt their voice wasn’t heard or their experiences were dismissed, they may compensate by oversharing whenever they have an […]

An important paper on how anti-trans campaigners have turned data collection into a political battleground – pushing to redefine “sex” in UK statistics, policy and law to exclude trans people. www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.... [1/4]

It shows how fights over census categories, policing data and health records are not neutral technical debates. They are organised attempts to reshape reality through administrative systems. [2/4]

The impact is concrete: when official data only recognises “biological sex”, trans lives and needs disappear from evidence, services and protections. [3/4]

Essential reading for anyone working in policy, research or equality work on why inclusive data matters – and how numbers can be used as a tool of exclusion or liberation. www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.... [4/4]

Today is the 28th anniversary of my bottom surgery. Some friends went out with me to celebrate, and that's the first time i've ever done anything special for this occasion. i think this is a more fun thing to celebrate than my birthday and i'll be making this a tradition in the future. #trans […]

[USPol Trump Greenland] So aparently part of why Trump wants a war with NATO is because he wasn't given the Nobel Peace Prize. In other news, all of the world's satire news sites announced that they will be shutting down in exasperation. #uspol #trump #greenland […]

Does this look like a tshirt which requires police involvement? Someone on Pierre Poilievre’s team thinks so: “ Cowichan businesswoman Kristi Koons said she’s alarmed and concerned over the fact that she and another two women were asked to leave a town hall […] [Original post on mstdn.ca]

Is there a word to describe the way your eyes feel after crying for an hour or two? It's a very unique sensation but i have no idea how to describe it.

Enough of white savior stories. i want to see a story about a young Black orphan boy from Africa who is raised by a white couple in America and grows up to be the hero who saves the nation from certain doom by using th wisdom and strength of his African heritage.

# Unwritten Rules of Conversation i have never understood any of the unwritten rules of conversation that neurotypical (and many neurodivergent!) people follow, and even though i’m 56 years old i have only this past year started trying to write down what i have been able to figure out on my own […]

i really fucking hate myself for not knowing how to talk to people. i upset someone today by trying to be supportive but i did it wrong and people got on me about it. Even someone who was completely uninvolved attacked me for it. Why can't i just fucking know how to talk like everyone else does? […]

From me to Washington, DC? That's 700 miles. It's far closer from Marseilles to Paris than from me to my national capitol, and I'm relatively close to DC in the big picture. So assembling big numbers is frigging hard. 6/6

Also, the United States is really, really big. And outside of a few regions like the northeast coast has no public transportation. I live 70 miles from the nearest big city. That's the distance from Portsmouth to London in the United Kingdom, and there is no rail, bus, or other way to get there […]

And that's unionized work. For non-unionized work, you can be fired for really any reason as long as it's not a legally improper reason (racism/sexism). "I don't like his hair" is valid. Makes challenging a firing for invalid reasons very difficult, particularly if you don't have good savings […]

I was hired as a cashier by a Grand Union grocery store in New Canaan, Connecticut. I was paid more than older, longer serving employees and an employee hired after me was paid more than me. We were chastised for discussing this pay discrepancy. I never met the store steward. The manager openly […]

Americans have no labor protections and their experiences with organized labor in the last few decades have been bad. There are proper democratic unions, there are corrupt unions, and there are corporate captured unions. The corrupt ones get the headlines, but far more unions are captured. This […]

A lot of Europeans and even some Americans don't seem to understand why Americans aren't "doing more" to fight fascism. So as an American here's an explanation. First, we are. It's not being reported. Our media has congealed into a few huge oligarchies. I was involved in a local protest in […]

I'm looking into books not just about #ADHD, but specifically about the use of #psychostimulant drugs to treat it. I was hoping to find professional reference books. Instead, what I'm finding, overwhelmingly, are strident denunciations of #ADHD as unreal, and of the drugs as tools of diabolical […]

OMG! Transphobes have decided that the new Autistic Barbie doll is transgender or something because her AAC tablet has a button for "pronouns". These people are fucked up beyond all recognition. This is what hatred does to people […]

i took the path on the right. #trans #transgender #funny

1/? Derealization and depersonalization are kinds of dissociation often experienced by people who have been traumatized in the past. They are ways of responding to trauma that work by creating distance between you and whatever you are experiencing. They are ways in which your brain protects you […]

You know, growing up in the Cold War, i did not expect that World War 3 would be the USA and Russia against NATO and the former Warsaw Pact countries.

How it feels trying to understand other people sometimes. 🤣 #actuallyautistic

i've just had quite the embarassing experience. i went to see a new doctor and it being an unfamiliar experience and having to deal with people i've never met before combined with the stress i'm under for having realized [REDACTED] and they did a little contra dance and turned up all my autistic […]