open.substack.com/pub/sharmane... Law School and Hot Flashes… what fun!

open.substack.com/pub/sharmane... Been writing a bit more on my blog lately. I'm going through a very long process of getting an ADHD diagnosis and it has it's challenges with me being a Black-Asian, Queer, Femme that is also grieving the loss of my husband 1 1/2 years ago and perimenopausal...

You know you have made interesting life choices when you are 47 years old and taking a "Hazing Prevention" online course because you about to enter university in 2 weeks.

substack.com/home/post/p-... I guess I have a writing bee in my bonnet, cause I have managed to post two days in a row.

sharmanefury.substack.com/p/a-love-let... I finally wrote something that wasn't primary focused on grief.

Proud to be the 234th 😎 on @BackerKit for NIOBE & DURA #1 - #3 & TALES OF ASUNDA V2 #1 - #4. Thanks @strangercomics.bsky.social

Why won’t my house magically clean itself? Doesn’t it know we have a guest coming on Friday!?!

Thinking about learning how to watch rugby, cause they have the thigh meats in that sport. All genders…rugby has the thigh meats! Do I know anybody that knows how to follow rugby, that could teach me how to follow it? I don’t ONLY want to see the thigh meats but the thigh meats are on the list.

I finally have a trash can! 2 months in my new apartment but I finally got one. Hurray for me!

youtu.be/H0o9QBM4LWQ Half of the DynaMIXED Duo (Me) is back with a new episode of BLERDcoMIXed. Last week I was in Chicago for C2E2 and got to hang out with some friends so I had to do a recap with one of said friends for y'all.

I ate all my fudge from C2E2 and now I’m sad.

Day ✌🏽 of C2E2! Ted Lasso at your service. Here to help you become the best version of yourself, win or lose! Barbeque Sauce!

All checked in for my flight tomorrow, so I guess I should probably pack…right?

4 days til C2E2 and my new apartment is filled with boxes and bins and very little walking space will I find a complete cosplay to wear? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Stay tuned…

Chairs and toilet seats are so much taller in The Netherlands. My fun size ass has to hop up just to sit down.

Behind on my update, so here goes… ECCC - yeah, that was a one and done for me. Moved into my new apartment. My first solo place since my husband died. Mixed feelings. Have to build furniture for the new place and pack for a big trip next week. My schedule is stupid!

Benefits of wearing masks: - Befuddle any would be DOGE facial recognition programmers - Health - Considerate of the immunocompromised - Similarity to comic book characters - The worst people in the world don’t want you to do it, so they’ll be big mad.

Looking forward to Emerald City Comic Con this weekend. My cosplay isn’t ready in time but that’s okay, I did just move from another state. I’ll just have to use it for C2E2. I wish I had brought Speed Racer with me though but it’s packed up snug as a bug in my moving pod. Oh well.

I made it to Seattle a few weeks ago but haven’t found a place yet. Realizing life as a solo is slightly more complicated than I had credited before. Like no dummy you can’t carry a 55” TV up the stairs whilst walking with a cane all by your onesies. So yeah, widow life adjustments suck.

I more than likely will never return to the Albuquerque Comic Con 😬but I went so I can cross it off my con list. Next stop on the new-to-me cons for 2025 is Emerald City. Let’s go!

Albuquerque Comic Con tomorrow, let’s go!

Just heard a great internet insult… “you are definitely not the most oxygenated salmon in the stream.” It may require the receiver to Google to understand that they’re being insulted, unless they watch their Nat Geo enough and I love that.

I forgot about this app during my trip but now I’m back. I’m sure I’ll forget again soon. Akemashita omedetou gozaimasu y’all!

Wagyu. That’s it, that’s the post.

It's very important to make some time in your routine periodically to watch this live performance of 'Ex-Factor' from Lauryn Hill and The Roots:

On my Mixed-Japanese pilgrimage through Japan right now, it is also the first deathaversary of my husband Tristan. I left a little bit of Tristan at this beach in Okinawa. Thankful to have friends of Tree & me with me in this beautiful place for this horrible reminder of the day I lost my love.

Kendrick.

Host of Militantly Mixed and co-hosts of Blerdcomixed and Matcha, Masala & Murder podcasts. Mother of Cats, recently widowed and maneuvering grief, and Sir Auntie to Mixed folks everywhere.

Don’t stop talking about Palestine. Don’t stop organizing. Don’t stop fighting.

Don’t stop talking about Palestine.

Hopefully this is the replacement that takes off.