This is all thats left on my teacher wishlist. Please help me clear it 🙏. Also, thank you to everyone who has shared my list and to those who purchased from it. I truly appreciate it and yall!!! www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/...

I am an nyc teacher and I am in need of binders, an academic planner, and index cards. These are essential items needed for the classroom. Please repost. Thanks www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/...

If you've considered therapy but aren't going, what is making you hesitate?

How do you heal from being hurt? Especially if a conversation with the person is not on the table. (Oh infamous "I don't" people your input isn't helpful)

I see numerous therapists on social media both insisting that therapeutic insights are essential, and also looking down on the public for not having them, and not approaching things the way a therapist does. Very odd.

How are you going to rest this weekend? Not sleep, REST?

In light of Playstation's recent announcement, my cats have informed me they will continue to deposit physical media in the litterbox.

It's Thursday. How are you getting to the weekend?

How much does it cost to sue someone for defamation? According to this? $8 million. And people wonder why more people don't do it. globalnews.ca/news/1194491...

What do you do when people try to shame you? Be honest. None of that social media fake toughness and uncaring.

Watch me play Alters while you follow France and Sweden football! www.twitch.tv/redlianak

What cheers you up? For real, not the kind where you just fake feeling better so the other person stops trying to cheer you up.

What's your biggest friendship deal breaker?

The critics were too hard on Supergirl. But the algorithm likes that, doesn't it?

Saw Obsession last night as part of a double feature. I wouldn't have gone to see it on its own but I ended up really liking it. Inde Navarrette is excellent. She manages to add just the right amount of comedy to a terrifying performance. The other film was Disclosure Day. I didn't like it as much.

What do you need in a proper apology?

What does forgiveness mean to you?

This is actually what the Republicans did to the Democrats, but I guess when they do it, it's fine.

It's so weird to see people fighting over the Democratic party brand and totally losing sight of the fact that the only way to get the numerous clawbacks of human rights around the world to stop is to get rid of this GOP majority.

If someone breaks your trust, how do they get it back?

People MAGAing over Lucia in GTA VI clearly aren't long time players of the franchise. There were 4 playable female characters to choose from in the first game, and Katie was Hispanic. Yeah, okay I can see you being fine with Franklin in GTA V because all he did was get shit on, but...

What are you doing today to let someone know they matter to you?

What is something you're doing today to feel like you matter?

Just saw a thing from a few days ago where the people who doxed me, accused me of impossible things, got friends to email my work and falsely accuse me of swatting, and suggested my husband was abusing me, were claiming they were practicing... minimization of harm strategies...

Okay gonna try for the "true ending" of Pragmata then start The Alters tonight if my computer can handle it. www.twitch.tv/redlianak

Me just now: "I have friends who are Swedish, Norwegian, English, Scottish, French, Mexican and American. I'd say when it comes to the World Cup I am Switzerland but they play Canada tomorrow!"

What are you going to do today to treat yourself well?

I've found that the advice in this column works with time. It takes a lot to rebuild. How to Rebuild Self-Trust After Betrayal and Gaslighting | Psychology Today share.google/4x1Iqb2LHZCL...

The boy who cried wolf cries wolf again! Now he's lying that I was referring to his relationship with his father bc I commented that he couldn't give it a rest on father's day. (Or Juneteenth for that matter) I was making scones for my husband and came back to an explosion. That's what I meant.

More lies told by The Boy Who Cried Wolf. 1) That I labeled him a pedophile. This is false. I do not believe he is a pedophile. Kiwi Farms labeled him a pedophile, and I did tell people that in attempts to defend him from the claims. But I never, EVER, claimed I believed it. That is a lie.

Since the boy who cried wolf can't even give it a rest on father's day, and is demanding examples of the things he lied about, because he it's in horrible pain, here is just a sample. 1) Me and a small army of trans women got him banned from bsky. Not only is this not possible...

Making my husband cat-dad Father's Day scones. Midna is supervising and that's why they turned out well. She insists the small one in the middle made from the leftover dough is the best one because she is the smallest cat. Happy Father's Day everyone!

They're nothing magical about the age of sixteen regarding coping. Without making social media less awful for everyone, banning social media for teens until 16 just means the problems start later. We have a responsibility to young people to make these sites way less cruel. It won't harm freedom.

Why do bullies immediately switch to "my feelings are hurt you harmed me I can't take this stress 😭" when they're caught in a lie? It's this weird universal constant and it kind of works because people just want them to shut up so badly. Holding them to account would mean even more screaming.

The worst part about the harassment against me is that it warps what peer support is. Peer support is NOT telling people how they should live their lives or what to do. They're making it sound like a cult, when it's the complete opposite, hence the word PEER. Equal. Not above the other person.

For clarity, my former web host, back in the day, put up a blog seemingly boasting that he'd committed child on child sexual abuse. Later he lied that it was originally revealed by me. His blog was the first time I'd heard of it. Now he's suggesting yes it came from him but I talked him into it.

I am absolutely not sure why a doxer would post more dox refuting a past lie about me, only to just tell another lie about me. What I do know is that this is evidence suggesting he knows he's lying. The right thing to do would be to apologize for the previous defamation. I won't hold my breath.

So my former webhost doxed me more yesterday, again, possibly altered, with information that proves some of his previous claims against me were a lie. He never admitted this, & he's now suggesting I made him do the thing that got him into trouble and originally claimed I started. This is also a lie.

A giant upon whose shoulders many stood. www.nbcnews.com/pop-culture/...

Probably AI but soooooo good! 🤣

Abusers frame responses to their bad behaviour as the reasons for their bad behaviour. They're desperately avoiding accountability and there's no reasoning with it.

Still work to do, but Happy Juneteenth!

Today, Canada and Mexico won their World Cup matches, Trump made a loser deal with Iran, and Nurgle the Chaos God of disease is living in the Reflecting Pool. Up next, CUSMA... because Grandfather Nurgle is generous...

Just saw this and had to share!

If someone insists that running you down, standing in judgment of you, and insulting you are how they feel connected to you, run. The fact that we still need to say this is sad, but people are worth the repetition.

The reality that everyone gets angry sometimes is used by abusers to excuse expressing every vulnerable emotion as anger. Regulated anger is not the same as out of control rage. No one can reasonably expect others to tolerate out of control rage.

The facts about anger and vulnerability. You do not have to absorb another person's rage just because they don't know how to express anxiety in a healthier way. The Relationship Between Anger and Vulnerability | Psychology Today Canada share.google/4U6AnfQn67GF...

When did "mind your own business" get replaced by "make every minor disagreement into a moral social crusade, and attack people over the shape of their eyebrows"? Seriously, it's gotten really bad. Most stuff isn't that deep.

Many people think that an angry reaction to an accusation proves guilt. The opposite is true: People get more angry when they're falsely accused, but there's a social expectation to appear calm. (This is of course about regulated anger, not dysregulated rage.) share.google/jTrcIrZdsCep...