You might be a racist if the words “White Supremacy” trigger you.

Reading The Ethical Slut with my husband and it’s just really great from an any relationship standpoint.

Someone really white and fragile took issue with this on my Facebook page and asked me (who only posted this with no comment) what made me an expert. I then proceeded to tell him how I was (moderately) an expert and he has not commented back. LOL. he doesn’t like being described as white people.

I’m thankful that I was set straight a couple of weeks ago about developing a polyamorous relationship outside of my monogamous marriage. I’ve slowed way way down for my spouse. And finally he’s willing to work on this. But I must be patient so he doesn’t get trampled.

I know I’m just some libtard, but it seems super weird to get this worked up about Charlie Kirk getting assassinated when Trump basically ignored assassinations of politicians and their families. There are even republicans saying that rapethugs don’t do this to dems. Gross.

This is why they are trying to subvert the voting process as a direct attack on Democracy. They are creating a situation where Democracy would end their power.

Let’s be real, those of us who know RFKJr is trying to kill us are finding ways to get necessary vaccines. So, follow me here, we are better equipped to live through winter. Strain on medical system, yes, and it will hurt innocent people, but mostly it will hurt people who voted for this.

So I’m learning a LOT about polyamory these past couple of weeks. More than I’d ever learned before. My spouse is finally able to work through this with me. I’m also learning it may never work for him and then I have choices to make. But I should slow down to help him paradigm shift.

I’m in the DORA zone, parents concerned about me texting and drinking beer in front of their children.

Hi, immunologist here: (a scientist who studies immune & inflammatory processes) RFK Jr is talking absolute bullshit when he says he can “see in kids faces that they have inflammation” That’s NOT how immunology works. He is an anti-science profiteer. Start calling him such.

Do I need to leave the US so I can get the correct vaccines? Do I need to leave the US because I’m using mood stabilizers and am autistic and I’m gonna get put in a work camp? Do I need to leave the US for top secret revolutionary reasons? Damn.

I don’t understand why RFK Jr. is allowed to kill people through his various obsessions.

Suddenly I’m allowed to be polyamorous and I’m just thinking, “wow, there’s a lot of bad involved with getting involved with others”. I don’t mean spouse-wise in this case. I mean miscommunications and weirdnesses with all relationships that are new. My spouse is scared and hard to explain I am too!

My spouse is being absolutely incredible and we super need a polyam knowledgeable couples therapist. I’m having trouble finding one. Suggestions? #oxfordohio #cincinnatiohio #polyamory #polyamorous #couplestherapy

Damn, ren fair is less than a week away and I haven’t figured out my garb!!!

It’s “All Too Well (Taylor’s Version)” season in Oxford, Ohio / Miami University.

Just wanted to share My new kitten Orange Kitty playing with the stuffed animal my daughter used to drag around everywhere named Orange Kitty. 😻

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Welcome to our house, Orange Kitty (Kitty/Kit for short)! Your life is about to be amazing. 🥰 #CatsOfBluesky

Both in real life and in gaming.

There are four lights.

Rikku’s last park adventure!

What’s fun is knowing my ex best friend would learn about my two dogs, my business, etc, and probably think “Karma”. But it’s not. I’m a tough lady. Life can be tough.

My spouse now knows we have to put down Rikku and he’s being the denial I thought he would be. Poor thing :(

This has been a wild day emotionally but at least my lawn is mostly mowed.

Well, the veterinarian and I are in agreement. The spouse still doesn’t know. :(

The universe owes me an orange kitty.

I feel like posting on Facebook: “wait til you see what’s next!”

I need a beach. Huge lake or ocean, not the puddles around where I live.

2025: my country is fucked, my first dog died, my business is either transforming from the mission I started or dead, and now my second dog is going to die. I’m thankful for all the supportive people in my life.

I feel bad I was kind of down yesterday and didn’t hang out with her and she had the most boring day. Her back legs barely work as of this morning and she’s been in obvious pain for a while now. I was so traumatized by us waiting so long with the other dog. I’m not letting that happen this time.

I’m afraid my dog is on her way out. But spouse isn’t home yet and I’m not going to tell him until he’s back home so the drive doesn’t suck for him.

Ok so imagine if you will that I have announced I’m thinking of getting a tattoo on the inside of my left index finger, and a friend suggests instead I use my middle finger. “I’m a tough lady” is what the tattoo would say.

My Kickstarter backers would like me to stop trying to make my non-profit work.

I wish I could stop trying to make this succeed.

This is so true. The mini-skirts at night, oh man….

Day two - ack why no lawyer call me back? - already have ideas to get us on track as a clothes closet type non-profit. Can’t without lawyer. - yesterday was a wash-ish. Do I have the strength for this? - shhhh, I’m a tough lady.

Let’s say I’m not able to be happy keeping the clothes closet open instead of the full mission. I can open a shop or I can be a game designer or I can consult on failed non-profits or…just I know I can figure it out.

I’m a bit depressed. And a bit drinking. But I see a path forward. At least for the next month or so.

I think the nicest thing said to me today was, when I blamed myself for board of director issues because of my autism, she said they knew about that going in.

Yo peeps. At GenCon. Send a message! Would love to playtest in the evening. I’m working booth #150 @inkwellideas.bsky.social !

I’m also tired of my phone thinking “an” goes with “Ouija”. That’s the 3rd time it’s corrected incorrectly.

I had no idea asking to borrow an Ouija board on Facebook could garner such wild comments.

Currently at Target and shopping for the new girl gen x junior high girls sleepover party.

It’s wild I’m leaving for Gen Con TOMORROW.

Wow damn

Nashville was great. I wish I’d stayed to see Broadway after dark, but the spouse and I were not figuring each other out.

Am I really poly? Am I really pan? I think I am. It’s just been a long time that I have been otherwise. My therapist is looking forward to stories. LOL. She’s not a good influence right now.

Coldplay at The Parthenon in Nashville.

Wow so a business owner in my community was ICEd last week. 🤬