For the last 8/9 years I’ve tried to find a use for my old wedding dress. Today I see it go to an elderly care home to be used as a reminiscing tool. Knowing it will now bring joy to so many women is amazing.

Number 5 is alive #BrickBuild #NotLego

April watched #FilmSky #Letterboxd

To the two men who were at the showing of Rose of Nevada at The Reading Biscuit Factory: You two turned a masterpiece into a live demo of sleep apnea and CPR. I didn’t realise the film came with surround sound snoring and a built-in resuscitation team

62 million in one month and over 80 million in another. WTAF is wrong with men? And if anyone dares to try to even say ‘not all men’ to me over this that is NOT the right thing to be saying right now

So I’ve been doing a thing….after receiving some serious blood results I took my health seriously and am now 3st down, reversed the type 2 diabetes, combated my emotional eating & finally feeling confident in myself again. I’ve got a long way still to go but here’s to 8 months in #weightloss

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March watched #FilmSky #Letterboxd

Finally got my bird (Sparrow hawk) for my sacrifice to the mental health gods today. Next sitting will be colour and background. May have fallen asleep during the sitting #Inked #Tattoo #Meditation

Middles hen do last night. How it started and how it ended. She had a brilliant night and memories were made #Family #HenDo #AllTheCocktailsAndShots

What movie(s) did you watch over and over again as a kid?

Should be used to being medically gaslit by yet another male consultant. Stood my ground this time till he agreed to do more bloods #WomensHealth #WhatIsWrongWithMe #IKnowMyBody #NotJustFibro

Had a fab night dancing for the first time in over 20 years and helping raise money for Victoria’s Promise at their Country and Western night. Didn’t realise just how much I missed dancing till last night and loosing myself in movement #Dancer #LineDancing #BackAndBodyHurts

February watched #Letterboxd #FilmSky

How to live a happy life by following these rules #GodzillaKnows

So erm we may have added two more shows to our weekly wrestling viewing #Oops

January films watched #FilmSky #Letterboxd

A year since Kris mentioned he was back watching WWE & that I’d have to find something to keep myself entertained while he watched the Royal Rumble. Didn’t think back then I’d be watching Smackdown, Raw, NXT & AAA along with all the PLEs weekly heavily invested in the storylines. Yet here I am 🤣

Goodbye Edna, you’ve been amazing. It’s been emotional but it’s got to that time where we part ways.Hello Blanche, I look forward to getting to know you and all our adventures to come. #NewCarDay

New cover for my work project books, have loved working with leather again #LeatherWork #BookCovers #CraftingRacoon

Picked up this dude at Typo today in their sale just because he reminds me of Buddy Christ. Can’t wait to get him pride of place on the tree next Christmas 🤣

Picture of the staff who operate my account.

Top 5 films of my 2025 films watched. Was a hard choice with the top two but Die My Love totally destroyed me at the end #Top2025Films

5 star films of 2025 #Films #2025Watched

December 2025 watched #Letterboxd #Films

2025 has been a tough health year, learning I have fibromyalgia, severe osteoarthritis, and a lot of adjustment. Your steady support, patience, humour and love have made it bearable. With more ahead in 2026, I’m stronger because of you. ❤️ @cactusakic.bsky.social

Celebrating our 6th Christmas together. Thank you for spoiling me me rotten. Merry Christmas from is to all @cactusakic.bsky.social

Two lemon drizzle cakes for the two most important men in my life. Can’t beat a good old family recipe passed down from my Grandma #Baking #NeedABiggerKitchen #Cake

They had a choice…..and they chose to not be inclusive #WI #GirlGuides

November watched #FilmSky #Letterboxd #Watched

Taking this rabble MCM Comic Con tomorrow…… pray for my sanity and that they all survive #ExcitedTeens #MumPoints #IAmCrazy #MCMComicCon

It’s been 10 years since My Dad Wrote a Porno was released. Was the podcast that got me listening to pods and it’s not aged at all. If you’ve never listened they’ve remastered the first series so the audio is better than the original. Highly recommended if you need a good laugh #MDWAP #Podcasts

Amazing gig as always from @peterhookthelight.bsky.social with @cactusakic.bsky.social in Coventry. Haven’t counted the amount of photos & videos yet but I ran out of storage about 3/4 through the evening!

October 25 watched #Letterboxd #Films

For my babies and Baby Agnes who were too beautiful for this earth. #BabyLossAwarenessWeek #WaveOfLight2025

September watched list #Films #Letterboxd

I need a lay down after spending a good 40 minutes trying to get my TT presale code to work. It did and we’re off to see one of my very favourite tours and will be able to explore Cardiff for the first time with @cactusakic.bsky.social. #Thatter #TakeThat #FanForLife

And yet people are going to believe this absolute bullshit. Autism is genetic, it’s a neuro type and is most definitely not a disease that can be prevented #ASD #NeedMoreSupport #HeIsDumbAsFuck

Wonder when we'll see humanity use giant legos against Godzilla

Algorithms know me way too me and my love for water bottles……. trying REALLY hard not to get anymore as sent 7 to charity recently. Yes I know I have a problem but it could be worse

Nothing like having a new desk buddy to keep me company during work…… #Transformers #WhatClearDeskPolicy #HeldToRansom

18 days of rest and I’m now back to feeling stressed already…

August watched #Letterboxd #Films

Out of office on till September. Have I been counting days since the start of August? Maybe #RestAndRecovery #OutOfOffice

Had you told me last year I’d be waking up at 5am to watch WWE before work a year ago I’d be laughing in your face…..yet here I am fully invested #WWE

July watched list #Letterboxd

Happy birthday @cactusakic.bsky.social another year of celebrating you.

I knew I’d cry today taking my daughter wedding dress shopping, but nothing prepared me for the amount of tears when we saw The One. Definitely need to find a solid waterproof mascara now! #WeddingPlanning #MotherOfTheBride

June watched #letterboxd #films