even though i posted this (and will hopefully add to it!), i want to make it so very clear that i am never judging any of you for spending *your* money however *you* want. i see so many of you expressing guilt over this, shopping at boycotted stores, not donating, etc. i wish you didn't.

thelittlestclayshop.store get them hereeee

posting some cute etsy finds btw! i know a lot of us like more subtle merch, and these little hair clips are such a good option www.etsy.com/listing/1780...

i really like this, but not for $75.

LMAOOOO oh you are SO coming home with me store.taylorswift.com/products/mid...

now give us the breakdown of how you planned 'it's nice to have a friend x dorothea' you coward

is "Introduction to Internal Family Systems" going to help me better understand the concept without all the frilly cutesy "softness" of No Bad Parts? i do not really understand the concept and i would like to. NBP was unreadable for me due to the tumblr-y tone.

northern lights from my backyard!

i gave lorde's album a second shot to see if i was just super sensitive the first time around. alas, it is still unbearable. maybe if she does acoustic tracks at some point. but that's a bummer.

being married to me requires getting up and looking at the sky whenever asked, but building the trust to know i don't ask unless it's a good one

it's so frustrating how the concept of the manic pixie dream girl is entirely about how men see and use women for thier personal gain, but pop culture has turned it into "quirky white girl in skirts and tights embodying jessica day"

TLOAS released 38 days ago, and this is the only date i've had written down for a while. since the engagement came 38 days before the album release, let's see if some silly gooserie unfolds.

someone on marketplace is selling this in case anyone's in the market for a giant stained glass vigilante shit taylor

gathered and angled my hair wrong and gave myself a minor mullet ☹️ forgot to let out my bangs before i cut... bad times

new allie x album new allie x album new allie x album

jbrekkie robbed... that's all i'll say

strongly dislike the generic references to "healing" and being "healed" in as of late... seems kinda insidious

my job at the church my job at the university 🤝 old men saying they want to ask a question but ending up telling my their life story

scrap this and let marc cherry do a legal show instead. give me desperate paralegals.

how does my boss always know to call me when i talk myself into 'i don't have any work due, my boss is at a conference' and do a trader joe's run... he's so good at it

good luck, new york.

i'm like seconds away from creating a subreddit for pop culture discussion with no snark allowed, no political shit, and no shit for brains stan culture bs... i am so sick of every single pop culture space being nothing but ppl working out their personal issues via anonymity

taylor swift has been trying for years to tell us the truth: she may be a pop star, but first and foremost, she is a trekkie. 38 has always pointed to her secret love for captain kirklie kloss

we got maybe 6 groups. i kept telling them to take as much as they wanted, and a little girl went all in and got three (tiny) armfuls until her mom physically pulled her away as she said "but she said take as much as i want!" girl after my own heart 🥹

man i really have always had a thing for Weirdos haven't i

in this thread i will prove beyond a reasonable doubt that taylor swift is trying to tell us that we *must* get down on friday

happy new florence to those who celebrate and those who do not (a temporary state)

the way she says "you always knew how to push my buttons" is criminally underrated. maybe even a federal crime

uh oh! someone misjudged our relationship and decided that ""affectionately"" calling me "bitch" was an appropriate way to speak to me!

my spouse wanted to contribute to soup day

if i wanted to eat what you were serving them while i was cold, i would have asked you it's the kind of soup, steams up kitchen views but i slurped it as i passed you, there's a leek in you, put there by the broth in me but if it's all a stew to you, it's a soup to me

you should've said "bowl" you should've got rolls you should've rinsed twice before you served dry lentils you should've known that word 'bout soup you gave to her would get cold and soggy

need folks to stop equating "liking" tloasg with "getting it" btw

updated... i am ready for 'from the pyre' to take AOTY in the end for melancholy brunettes and sad women ego death mayhem from the pyre (the last dinner party) princess of power the clearing (wolf alice) no hard feelings (the beaches)

lilsimsie's real surname actually being "sims" is incredible

what is it about me liking cats that emboldens so many people to tell me stories about how they were shitty pet owners and let their cats die??? i don't want to know this about you.

it is so very important everyone knows this is NOT emily austin, author of interesting facts about space. damn near had a heart attack.

can't tell you all enough how much i hate the way that cutesy tiktok filtering phrases like "unalived" and "PDf file" have infiltrated other platforms. and how obnoxious it is that people feel entitled to using them to get around filters that exist for a reason.

no matter how many fancy task management programs i try, absolutely nothing beats a google doc with 'to do' at the top

did one of you write this???

i think the funniest outcome of tomorrow (10/18) would be if taylor posted sourdough on the side of a bowl of soup

new album from the last dinner party. hell yeah.

took a walk in the old neighborhood to see the halloween street

i wish AA wasn't so ingrained in our culture to the point where people believe that you cannot be "sober" unless you are in AA

taylor swift gay

downside of living in colorado: temperature swings. a few years ago we went from 101 to 31 in a few hours. the other day it was 54 degrees and today's high is 80. pls just be normal i beg

here's a thread of some of my favorite soups, chiles, and stews. starting with my household favorite!

i think one of the things i like about 'gaylor' is that it really is a choose your own adventure type of thing. there's so many different lenses and perspectives you can look at everything with. you just have to be a little bit adventurous and open to being wrong.

grocery store playing renegade??

my personal AOTY list for melancholy brunettes and sad women ego death mayhem the clearing no hard feelings just waiting on florence & the last dinner party