Deconstructing patriarchy is about men protecting the women they love from other men and protecting women that they don’t know, from themselves.

There is no “she won”, because you don’t “win” a loser.

The here is no competition with God.

#OOTD 🥰🥰😊

It’s my Birthday! ❤️❤️❤️

Never had a problem with being left out, not included or not in the room with folks because once “the room” starts turning on each other, my hands are clean and can’t possibly be blamed!!!

You can tell how intelligent someone is, by how stupid they think you are lol.

When they can’t love you right, they force themselves to hate you.

Being authentic is my greatest gift and curse. I am so liberated but I’m also most hated- which is oppressive in a sense but I don’t care enough to conform … it’s a complex existence

You can’t use logic, intelligence or niceness to educate an idiot.

Rotten fruit falls on its own …

Did you know that butterfly’s REST when it rains? ☝🏽It’s ok to take a rest and to get back moving when the “weather” permits. 🥰👌🏽

Memories with your family are treasures of a lifetime.

I saw a quote “Mom gave me $10 and dad gave me $20 I thought the $20 was better until I learned mom only had $10 to give and dad had $100.” Sometimes kids will blame the parent that stayed. #singlemom #divorce

Many times when people are saying you “aren’t good enough” it’s because they know you are.

I try to be nice to people but somehow another, it comes back to bite me. Many people take niceness and them being able to use you. Not the case with me … if anything, I’ll get “nice-nasty” if you thought that.

“When something is not for you, it will hurt you until you understand it.”

Some people have a darkness about themselves and that’s why they can’t stand the light that you carry. Your presence alone aggravates their insecurities.

If someone does for you while they are struggling too, that’s not HELP … that’s LOVE! ❤️

“Don’t feed every dog suffering. Most just need enough strength to bite you.”

Walking into a quiet room is often a sign that the silence is a result of the conversation that ended when you entered - a conversation that was likely about you.

What is easy to do, is also easy to NOT do.

People change, and you have to be prepared to pivot when they do…

Just because you know who someone is doesn’t mean you’ll know who they’ll become.

You lose people when you expose the weakness in them that they weren’t ready to face. Growing up is realizing when to speak and when to let people stay in their ignorance and find their own way. They will hate you because they hate themselves.

You guys have to understand that some people will only start to feel like they are wrong once they are actually feeling the effects of their decisions. Even then, they will still try to blame someone else for their own shortcomings.

TAKERS don’t have boundaries of how much to take. They will bleed you dry. That’s why you need to have boundaries of how much you GIVE.

“I’ve changed” is just a conjuring spell to hold you captive. Even if they did change, it was their own discomfort that inspired them. Not your tears. ☝🏽

Once you grow out of the person that “they loved”, you realize that they were only in love with the person that they could control.

Out running errands today with my cousin! Hope y’all have a great day!

If a woman speaks life into a man saying “you could be doing better”, a king would take that as her seeing his potential … a fool gonna think she’s picking on him.

“You can speak to the king in a man, or a fool in that man.”

☝🏽 It’s ok to pause your healing journey, to remind MFs why you started in the first place.

Everybody that gave me a hard time while I was already having a hard time, is something I will never forget about them.

Women are given the gift of intuition, we just need to *listen*. Unfortunately we've been taught to ignore it instead of embracing it.

When someone says something outrageous to you, ask them; “Which one of the 17 voices in your head told you to say that to me? They need to be fired.” 😂✌️

If someone ever tries to blame you for their shortcomings, just tell them; “There are mirrors everywhere … choose one.” 😂✌️

Just because someone chooses peace over conflict, that doesn’t mean they are afraid OF you. They are slow to enter conflict to protect YOU, not themselves.

Never think that the person that is at peace, is unskilled at war.

The lips of wisdom are closed, except to the ears of understanding.

You get to learn this lesson however you need to, because a lesson learned by blood, is not easily forgotten.

Not all advice is designed to stop you from making the mistake. Some is to hasten the learning process.

Just because I compliment you and make you laugh, doesn’t mean I’m flirting with you. I’m just funny and you like me. 🙃🙃😂✌️

Some people want to control the narrative to a story, when they themselves have a whole book 😂.

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I heard a therapist say, "Your feelings are always valid, your behavior is not." She explained by saying “feel what you feel BUT you need to be accountable for what you do as at result of those feelings”.

It’s what we do when we think no one’s watching that shows our true character.

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