People who are not supposed to be in your life only hear what they want from you.

You know you have grown when you no longer argue with people, react to their judgments, defend your disagreement, explain yourself to clear their misunderstandings, care about their one-sided beef with you, correct their mental image of you, and teach them how to treat you right.

Stop investing in one-sided relationships. You confuse loyalty with self-abandonment when you keep watering dead plants. You don't need to overgive to feel valuable and prove your worth. You are worthy. You are enough as you are. You deserve love that doesn't ask you to abandon yourself.

Some people aren't dating you, their father/mother issues are dating you. That's why they call you daddy or mommy in the bedroom.

It's comforting and upsetting at the same time when you realize no one is coming to save you from yourself.

Real life happens between skeets and reskeets.

If you've to translate your vibe, they're no longer your tribe. If you've to shrink yourself to fit in, you've outgrown them.

Some men want to have sex with women because they long to return to the safety of their mother's womb.

You should be able to relate to someone in your relationship with them. If you no longer relate to them, then there is no longer a relationship between you, there is only a connection.

It's usually a red flag when you love yourself less to love someone else more.

Your heart is meant to love yourself first.

The higher your emotional intelligence, the more you realize you don't go through your emotions; your emotions go through you.

Become unfuckwithable on social media: Be YOU. Mind your own business. Own your emotions. Pause before reacting. Observe without absorbing. Choose boundaries over their feelings. Be unmoved by compliments or criticism. Be unbothered by what they think of you. Take it vibrationally, not personally.

When you validate yourself, you don't need to seek their validation. When you don't need to seek their validation, it's easy to ignore their invalidation.

The more you lie, the more you fuck up your throat chakra. Most politicians have a fucked up throat chakra.

Part of meeting yourself is meeting your unmet needs.

The problem with happiness is often that you think it will happen in the future.

Can you worry about the future without using that voice in your head?

Those who block your light will create their own shadow.

Vacations are more fun when you want to escape from your life.

The closer you are to someone, the more they will treat you the way they treat themselves. If they mistreat themselves, they will mistreat you.

The more intimate the relationship, the more it will reveal what you need to heal.

Loving those who hurt you and hurting those who love you is often a trauma response.

If the universe is here to help you become more conscious, then whenever you have multiple paths to choose from, choose the path that will increase your consciousness.

No matter how much external validation you receive, it will not resolve your internal self-invalidation issues. Some journeys are meant to be walked alone.

The lower you vibe, the more your environment shapes you. The higher you vibe, the more you shape your environment.

Stay away from people who often tell you to be the "bigger person" to let their shit slide. They manipulate and pressure you into tolerating disrespect, avoiding accountability, or suppressing boundaries. You deserve mutual respect, not endlessly accommodating their bad behavior to avoid conflict.

Sometimes the more perfect a person appears on social media, the more demons they have on the inside.

Some people think they hate everyone, but they actually hate themselves and project this self-hate onto everyone.

Stop being so considerate in situations where you are not even considered. Kindness is a gift, not an obligation. You will be drained if you keep pouring into people who don't reciprocate. Protect your spirit and well-being. Redirect your warmth toward those who reflect it back to you.

The more you heal, the less your relationships will reflect your trauma. Healing will help you break toxic cycles, set healthy boundaries, see people as they are rather than through the lens of past pain, and build deeper connections rather than attachment through survival mode.

It's awkward when they lie to you, so you decide to lie to them, and they catch you lying.

It’s all fun and games until someone gets triggered by failing to trigger you.

In the United States, dental care is often not covered by health insurance and is very expensive. To make it more realistic, there should be more bar fight scenes where people cover their mouths to protect their teeth.

It takes courage to let go of the stories you have about people and grieve for who you once thought they were or who you wanted them to be. But in that space, you reclaim your power to relate authentically, not just cope.

When you keep giving yourself what you want from others, like-minded people will also give you what you want. Want validation from others? Validate yourself. Want others to respect you? Respect yourself. The universe operates on reciprocity. What you pour into yourself, the universe mirrors back.

You have to be yourself first before you can think for yourself.

What they refuse to see in you is usually about what they refuse to feel about you, or what they refuse to feel about themselves, projected onto you.

Those who try to block your light create their own shadow.

Some people are attracted to you because they are fractured inside and they want to steal your energy and prosperity.