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Headmistress Blake has a mind to give someone a good hard seeing-to with a wooden paddle…but this time, it’s herself!

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Kinky Is Beautiful was such a success that I'm running a longer, deeper version - launching this Friday. I'm equal parts wildly excited and absolutely terrified, which means I'm doing something that matters!

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All this talk of new beginnings and higher selves has left me itching to get my hands on some beautiful bottoms!

If you’re in the mood to get thrown over my lap, I’ve got a bit of space in my diary just for you…

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Our favourite naughty headmistress makes sure the Peeping Toms get a good view of her bottom in her tight pencil skirt as she gives herself a good hard paddling.

Spanking can lead us into something like an altered state of consciousness. Done well it’s an intense psychological experience, practically a drug in its own right.

I'm still buzzing from Kinky is Beautiful, and I owe you all a proper debrief.

Your sexual shadow doesn't disappear when you try to repress it. It just spills out in vulnerable moments. The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts in 5 days. 21 days to befriend your taboo turn-ons and turn your sexual shadow into gold ⚜️

When I try to pretend the kinky part of me doesn’t exist, I risk losing control of it. I need to accept that these desires are part of who I am in order to behave responsibly.

Pandora’s masked, silent jailer parts her legs, pinches her nipples and makes her feel every inch of her vulnerability…

The only sex education I got was “save it for marriage”, but by the time I was nine years old I already knew I wasn’t like other kids.

Throwing his vulnerable prisoner over his lap for another round of unrelenting punishment, Pandora’s silent jailer has only one thing on his mind: will he finally uncover the truth?

BBC Radio OS phoned last week to ask for my comments on the choking ban, which I discussed on air along with Madison Young. So far I’ve only been able to find an online record of the arguments given in favour of the ban, so I’m glad I took my own recording of the programme.

From our deepest archives, the next instalment of this dark, dank and deliciously dystopian interrogation fantasy is live now!

This intimate video diary is Vee’s last chance. Maybe if they lay it all out – how bad they’ve been, how much they’re aching for something more, how desperate and needy they’re starting to feel – Sir will listen, relent, punish them, and give them what they’re craving so deeply.

Sometimes, when you can’t get the spanking you so urgently crave, you’ve simply got to take matters into your own hands!

Vee knows they shouldn’t touch themself without permission, shouldn’t let their mind wander when they need to focus, certainly shouldn’t try and seek out punishment from anyone other than Sir – but how can they possibly resist, when it’s been so long and they need it so badly?

Once the boss has arrived – and Blake has made their hasty exit – Matilda finds herself shockingly exposed, bent trembling over a wooden chair, still wearing her painful high heels.

It’s been a long day making sales at a trade fair, but for new employee Matilda the most painful part of it is yet to come…

Matilda doesn’t take her paddling well, exactly, but take it she does – and with a bit of luck this will be all the motivation she needs to listen to instructions more carefully in future!

It’s not easy to become a team leader in an office as strict and demanding as this, but once you make it up the ladder the job certainly comes with some fascinating perks!

With a new hire on the sales floor, it falls to old hand Blake to spill the tea on the company’s rather old-fashioned approach to employee discipline. But can anything prepare the rather naïve Matilda for the indignities to come?

Matilda doesn’t take her paddling well, exactly, but take it she does – and with a bit of luck this will be all the motivation she needs to listen to instructions more carefully in future!

Blake has been working here for a long time, and they know the lay of the land - but some of the company’s more old-fashioned habits still seem shocking to newcomers.

New hire Matilda doesn’t take her first corporate spanking with much grace or finesse, but she gets through it somehow - pouting and struggling notwithstanding!

Once the boss has arrived – and Blake has made their hasty exit – Matilda finds herself shockingly exposed, bent trembling over a wooden chair, still wearing her painful high heels.

With a new hire on the sales floor, it falls to old hand Blake to spill the tea on the company’s rather old-fashioned approach to employee discipline. But can anything prepare the rather naïve Matilda for the indignities to come?

There’s a lot to love about feminisation: feeling pretty and and put-together, being seen as sexy and desirable. So we’ve made a film that celebrates those things.

We usually talk about two kinds of fantasy - the kind you want to act out, and the kind that are just for the inside of your mind - but there are fantasies that live in-between, too.

All of us can benefit from mapping our desires and following the clues to our turn-ons. They can show us secret parts of ourselves, and lead to profound and transformative experiences of self-discovery.

Born This Way narratives - although they have played a helpful role in countering homophobia and transphobia - are only useful to a point. They erase sexual fluidity and ignore people whose erotic desires (or even their gender) change over time.

We only pay attention to our turn-ons when they're outside what we've been told is socially mainstream. I've developed a system for understanding how our sexualities develop - however far from the norm they may be.

We love femmes here, and we’re excited to release a film that puts a positive, affirming spin on a kind of sexuality that is often portrayed as something humiliating or shameful.

Everyone who experiences sexual feelings can benefit from exploring at the complexities of their erotic mind. Decoding our unique erotic blueprint has so much to reveal about our psychology, our approach to relationships, and how we relate to society,

Through my new short course I'm offering teaching, daily reflections, and a live Q&A, all designed to help you let go of internalised shame and get truly comfortable with your kinks.

I'm over the way the establishment pathologises kink, the stereotypes that stigmatise BDSMers as broken people crippled by childhood trauma. If we only ask "why?" about kinky sexualities, we're playing into that stigma. So I've created a new model of erotic development.

Ever wonder why certain things make you 🔥? After years of working to understand my own taboo turn-on I've decoded the mysteries of how our sexuality evolves - and now it all finally makes sense.

Asking for what you want can feel impossible, but suppressing your truth can lead to behaviour you might regret. When we're living in shame, we're more likely to do things that make us ashamed.

If we're turned on by themes that seem to conflict with our core values, it can leave us feeling confused or ashamed - but each of us is a complex puzzle of multiple parts, especially when taboo themes show up in our eroticism.

What I find so rewarding about in-person work is helping people get unstuck around their kink. My clients are mature adults with sexual desires that feel complex, even taboo - and my work is about meeting them there.

Ever felt like you're stuck in a loop, obsessing over something without taking action - you can't stop thinking about it, but for some reason you aren't doing anything ABOUT it either?

Something a little different this week. The dungeon Pandora is tied up in is dark, echoing, filled with mysterious implements and endless questions. They’re clearly all leading up to something, but…what?

Join the Kinky Is Beautiful programme with me next week, and I'll show you how to make sense of your taboo turn-ons and get to know your unique erotic mind. 🧬