Witnessing another human fully inhabiting their truth and expressing themselves without apology or performance is something I deeply value. x

Presence costs nothing and genuinely creates real connection. x

Skin on skin, time slowing down, both of us paying attention to what's building. 🔥

There's steadiness here to relax into while we explore together, solid ground beneath whatever unfolds. x

Everyone's journey is different, shaped by unique experiences and needs. Being trusted to be part of yours is an honor taken seriously. x

The world's chaotic enough already. Here is calm, presence, and full attention without distraction. A refuge from the noise outside.

Laughter and intimacy go hand in hand. Pleasure doesn't have to be serious to be profound x

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐭𝐡 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐬𝐨𝐟𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬? By understanding they're not opposites. I can be strong and soft simultaneously. Being gentle requires strength. Being vulnerable takes courage. They complement rather than contradict each other.

Anyone who was taught that feelings aren't manly missed out on learning that emotional awareness is actually one of the most powerful tools available for creating real connection.

Every body has its own dialect of pleasure, and there's genuine excitement in becoming fluent in yours x

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲? Genuine interest in human connection and intimacy. I'd been exploring my own s-xuality and healing, and realised I could create space for others to do the same. The work felt meaningful and aligned with my values.

May the new year bring you intimacy that feels nourishing , pleasure without guilt, and connections that honour exactly who you are. Wishing you all a holiday season as beautiful as you are!

For those who have lost hope in real connection: it's still out there, often showing up in unexpected places.🤍

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𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡? Many ways! By how I respond to situations that used to trigger me, the quality of my relationships and my capacity to stay present with discomfort. xx

I've learned that being vulnerable takes strength. It's something I respect deeply. x

When emotional intelligence meets physical chemistry, that's when something special happens. x

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮? Living authentically, doing work that matters, maintaining loving relationships, continuing to grow, feeling at peace with myself and having positive impact on others. Success is alignment and fulfillment within my values. x

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲? Through presence, groundedness, warmth, directness and taking action when needed. But also through emotional availability, nurturing and receptivity. Masculine energy includes all of this for me. x

There's a quietness in strength that lets you know you can fall apart safely here, held through it all. x

Laughter and intimacy really do go hand in hand. 😊

Your mind is where everything starts. 🤍

Your curiosity brought you here. I'd love to see where else it might lead. x

Safety first, always. That's the foundation and where everything good begins. We can figure out the rest together.

The secret to connection is genuine interest, playful curiosity , and accepting that awkward moments are part of being human. x

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐭? Authentic desire feels alive in my body, there's genuine pull whereas performed desire is in my head, it's about meeting expectations or proving something. My body is always drawn to authenticity. 🤍

The intimacy you want genuinely requires you to show up as you actually are, not as you think you should be. Most people never quite get there, but I assure you that you can. x

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨? The meaningful connections, the privilege of being trusted with people's vulnerabilities, the continued learning about myself and showing up for others with safety, admiration and reverence. Every person teaches me something new.

I think healthy masculinity means embracing vulnerability as a pathway to deeper intimacy with ourselves and others. x

There's artistry in calibrating touch to match exactly what your body is asking for 🤍

Can facilitate deeply transformative intimate experiences but cannot successfully fold a fitted sheet. Evie watches me try every week and finds it hilarious. 😂

The art of holding space for someone lies in being steady enough to ensure they feel safe and gentle enough to ensure feel cherished.

Int1macy that honours your nervous system rather than pushing past its boundaries creates experiences your body will actually remember as positive and safe. 🤍

I am here as a solid presence to support you in letting go completely.

I believe men can express the full spectrum of emotions without losing any of their strength. It's healthy and benefits not only us, but the people we care about.

That moment when strength meets tenderness and someone finally feels safe enough to surrender is why we're here.

Consent culture benefits everyone! We love modelling healthy communication and respect in all interactions. x

𝐐&𝐀 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞:𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐛𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞? That I'm working as an intimacy provider. Younger me would be shocked that I'm this open about sexuality, that I've done this much healing work and that I'm living so far outside conventional expectations.

Strong hands, soft heart, curious mind, all three matter when you're holding space for someone's deepest desires.

Love wins, authenticity heals and connection transforms in ways that ripple through entire communities and future generations.

To anyone nervous about trying something new: we're all learning as we go and that's not just okay, it's human.

𝐐&𝐀 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞? Safe enough to be completely present, passionate enough to feel fully alive, playful enough to include humour and deep enough to feel truly seen and known. My favourite kind of intimacy includes all these elements.

The transformation I have witnessed proves it's never too late to change patterns or discover new aspects of yourself that bring joy.

𝐐&𝐀 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬? Authenticity and integrity. I want to make choices that align with who I really am and what I genuinely believe. When I'm unsure about something, I ask if it's true to myself.

I spent a good part of my adult life cultivating interests that felt appropriately masculine. Single malt whiskeys I couldn’t really afford, sports teams I followed with an intensity that, looking back, feels more than a little performative. Not that I didn’t enjoy these things, I genuinely did.

To those who've been made to feel selfish for having needs: your desires really do matter and deserve attention.

Always taking the opportunity to feel the sun on my skin, it really is invigorating!☀️

𝐐&𝐀 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨? Witnessing people discover things about themselves, seeing shame transform into acceptance, creating space where people feel truly safe to explore. The transformation is beautiful and humbling to be part of.

The future of human connection depends on our willingness to have honest conversations about desire, boundaries and what creates safety

Your past experiences with s-xuality don't determine what's possible for you now or in your future.