Join professionals from education, social care, youth justice, the prison service & more as they embark on our next online accredited NVR Foundation Level Training. Designed for professionals who want to bring this transformative approach into their practice. Starts 14 October bit.ly/NVR-FdnL1

“It’s not about being passive, it’s about being receptively present…. Say yes to the feelings, even as you say no to the behaviour.” - Dan Siegel #NVR can help - bit.ly/NVR_BM #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #FosterCare #KinshipCare #SEND #ACES #ParentalSupport #Connection #RelationalRepair

Beautiful art in my neighborhood #art

“Traditional methods of managing a child’s behaviour through punishment and reward not only have little effect, but actually make things worse: for both child and parent.” - @stuartshanker.bsky.social #NVR can help - bit.ly/NVR_BM #ParentalSupport #Connection #RelationalRepair

💬 “We’ve tried everything & nothing works!” If you’ve heard this from the parents/ carers you support - this post is for you. #NVR can help - join us for our online NVR Foundation Level Training, starts 2 Sept - bit.ly/NVR-FdnL1 See you there? #NonviolentResistance

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“The pervasive misunderstanding of trauma-related behavior has a profound effect on our educational, mental health, & juvenile justice systems.” - Bruce D Perry #NVR is a powerful, systemic approach that can help - bit.ly/NVR-FdnL1 #TraumaInformed #TraumaResponsive

Holiday homes for neurodivergent families Avoid strong smells - from hand soap and air fresheners. They can overwhelm or make people feel sick (cherry hand soap) Reduce textures - esp for sofas and bedding. Throws can help if seats are textured, but embroidery on duvets/ pillows can be unbearable.

From troubled & troubling tots to teens - from violent, destructive behaviours to anxiety-based controlling & self-injurious behaviours, we’ll equip you with strategies & techniques proven to help where traditional approaches don’t seem to work. NVR - Beginner’s Mind 9 Sept | Online bit.ly/NVR_BM

📣 The Government has announced that kinship carers will be included in a new review of parental leave and pay! Are you a kinship carer and do you want to make sure your voice is heard? Respond to the review’s call for evidence: ow.ly/5nfc50WF5UR #SameLoveSameLeave

Self funders, we now offer 0% interest payment plans across all of our trainings through PayPal* We do not charge any additional fees for offering these options or if you choose to use them. *see Paypal for eligibility and T&Cs

The objective... “is not to change people & their behaviour in order to get our way; it is to establish relationships based on honesty & empathy, which will eventually fulfill everyone’s needs.” - Marshall B Rosenberg #NVR can help - bit.ly/NVR_BM #SystemicApproach #Connection #ParentalSupport

NVR is a powerful approach for parents who feel they’ve lost their voice, influence, or connection with their child. If you’re lying awake at night, anxious, feeling isolated, or even afraid - for your child or of them - NVR offers a way forward. bit.ly/NVR_BM #CPV #CPVA #NVR #ParentalSupport

Brilliant!!! Huge congratulations @helenbonnick.bsky.social 😊🎉

#NVR is a powerful, proven systemic approach that can help professionals support & empower families struggling with violent, aggressive & controlling behaviours from children & young people NVR Foundation (L1) training 8 x bi-weekly ONLINE sessions Starts 2 Sept 6:30 - 9:00pm BST bit.ly/NVR-FdnL1

“…everywhere you look - there are people impacted by trauma who are still misunderstood, and sometimes retraumatized, by the very systems that should be helping them.” - Oprah Winfrey NVR can help - bit.ly/2TlRH2a #NVR #SystemicApproach #Connection #RelationalRepair #ParentalSupport

Autumn/Winter dates for our Online #NonviolentResistanceTraining… For parents, grandparents, foster carers, or anyone raising children:- • NVR #BeginnersMind - bit.ly/NVR_BM For Professionals:- • #NVRFoundation L1 - bit.ly/NVR-FdnL1 • #NVRAdvanced L2 - bit.ly/NVRAdv

Across the late summer and autumn last year I spoke to parents, carers and professional about how we support families living with children's challenging behaviour. You can read my report and listen to all the interviews here. #cpv #ccvab alcoates.co.uk/churchill-fe...

Reward-and-punishment-based approaches simply do not work for all children or teenagers. There is another way… ‘NVR -Beginner’s Mind’ 8 online, bi-weekly sessions 9 Sept, 6:30pm - 8pm (BST) 🔗 bit.ly/NVR_BM For parents, grandparents, foster carers, or anyone raising children - you are not alone.

“Don’t ever mistake my silence for ignorance, my calmness for acceptance or my kindness for weakness. Compassion & tolerance are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength.” - Dalai Lama bit.ly/2TlRH2a #NonviolentResistance #NVR #SystemicApproach #Connection #RelationalRepair #ParentalSupport

Supporting Parental Alienation Awareness Day #ParentalAlienationAwarenessDay

“Relationships matter: the currency for systemic change was trust, and trust comes through forming healthy working relationships. People, not programs, change people.” - Bruce D Perry NVR can help - bit.ly/2TlRH2a #NVR #NonviolentResistance #SystemicApproach #Connection #RelationalRepair

We are pleased to announce bookings are now open for our 10-week online NVR Advanced Level Training. Join us? Level 2: Applied NVR Practice Starts 20 May 2025 at 6:30pm-9:00pm BST bit.ly/3YmJ7Ua

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Look what arrived in the post this morning! Happy Publication Day Peter - looking forward to reading this. 😊

There is no such thing as ‘healthy fear;’ it is actually emotional damage. Those who seek to manipulate children in this way should have no place whatsoever in the children’s workforce. Do something about this now, please @bphillipsonmp.bsky.social www.theguardian.com/education/20...

When I hear stories like those from the academies in Hackney, I think that mental health professionals have to speak up. In these schools, it sounds like teachers were being encouraged to use fear to control young people. For some of them the mental health effects lasted years. 1/

‘Don’t man up…. Instead ‘…talk, cry, scream’ This is so important & very poignant from @mscaitlinmoran.bsky.social on men taking their ow lives

“Our children NEED to feel that we see them, that we understand them, and that they matter.” - @sarahrosensweet.bsky.social NVR can help - bit.ly/2TlRH2a #NVR #Connection #RelationalRepair #TimeInNotTimeOut

Kohn's Law*: The value of any resource intended for teachers (or parents) is inversely related to the number of times the word "behavior" appears in it. From the archives: "It's Not About Behavior": is.gd/q9NY5p _________ * No one has ever actually used this phrase, but an author can dream.

Hello all! We’re still finding our feet but it already feels so much lighter and brighter over here. 😊