23 years! There aren’t many quotes or sayings about 23 that aren’t Blink-182 related, or 23 skidoo, which I have ZERO intention of doing. I can’t imagine trying to navigate this life without him. There’s no better partner for me in this world or elsewhere, and I love him beyond words.

My first Sonic Temple. Now that the pain has worn off I kinda want to go next year.

Just one Pepsi.

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Happy 21st of April. What in the living hell is out there. #KAB #JohnCarpenter #AdrienneBarbeau

Comfort food and a classic Easter movie.

Please join my for this final year of my 40s.

RSD 2025. I splurged because this may very well be the last RSD of my 40s. Not counting Black Friday but whatever, it’s my birthday week goddamn it. Here’s my haul! Thanks again to Spoonful Records, Amy Kesting, birthday boy Brett Ruland, and the rest of the great Spoonful staff for a great day!

Hello, Xanny. Come play with us.

The NYT thinks less NSFW than me.

Today is the International Transgender Day of Visibility. I stand with my trans loved ones and refuse to support any person, business, system, or government that supports their invisibility.

Excellent time at GalaxyCon Richmond! GalaxyCon does great shows, and Richmond is a cool town.

I love my city.

This year I’m trying new bakeries on Lent Cheat Day, aka Sunday. The Napoleon at Gourmand Croquant bakery is incredible! I’ve also tried: Tous les Jours: excellent spinach and feta croissant. Paris Baguette: the Salted Butter Twist Roll is fabulous. Bearded Baker: Mini cheesecake. Yes please.

Cuz we got…2 tickets to Parasite!

Before and after the Studio 35 Out Of This World 12 Hour Horror marathon! Excellent time and can’t wait for the next one.

Happy Pi Day! Cottage Pie with French onion soup on the side.

Maureen Van Zandt joins us to review the 97th Best Picture winner, "Anora"!!! Available where you get your podcasts!!! open.spotify.com/episode/4nv4...

Green shirt and imitation pearls? That can only mean one thing! Elvis Costello and Steve Nieve show!

George Lowe. It’s not easy to fill shoes as large as the great Gary Owens, but he did so beautifully. Today I think of him and my heart is with everyone who knew and loved him. And I will eat toast. Because as he said to me more than once, snack tip: TOAST!

I said GOD DAMN! Took first place in the Pulp Fiction launch party at John and Steph’s tonight. Steph made an incredible trophy and I did not expect to bring it home but I’m so excited that I did! Even though I don’t look like it in my closed eye photo.

Believe it or not, this was a double roll. So it’s actually 244,340. I promise there are witnesses.

I guess I want to cry.

As much as I want to make a reference and say that Australia has lost its ruler, I just can’t because this is too horrible. My heart is with everyone who loved and was loved by Gene and Betsy. People often say the greatest American film actor was Spencer Tracy. I say it was Gene Hackman.

This is how I celebrated my first Twin Peaks Day without David Lynch. IYKYK

On November 14 2000, an artist who was new in town decided to join a book group at his local Barnes & Noble. He befriended the two employees who facilitated the group, and eventually married one. As this B&N prepares to close and move, we took some time to remember the fun and friends we found there

My babies being babies.

#teendatingviolenceawarenessmonth @fairfaxcounty.bsky.social

This we do for pleasure, so that we may shortly be at the mercy of venomous snakes and poisonous ants. How foolish can human creatures be.

Came in 11th out of 47 and got Murphy kisses at the Murphy Cup!

Oh my JimJim. My goofy lovebug.

I didn’t even ask. Tina already told me.

Now it’s dark. #RIPDavidLynch

Can I just do this all winter?