Here’s what I’ve learned: We can’t make someone love or commit to us. No matter how much we invest, how many tears we shed, or how fervently we plead, their heart remains beyond our control. Love isn’t a transaction; it’s a choice that we make willingly to each other my love 💑🌹

Everything changes when you stop trying to prove you didn't say that, you didn't do that, you didn't mean that. You can't fix every lie and every rumour or defend yourself everytime something is said about you. Your inner peace matters so much. You deserve to prioritize it.

Hope creates vision. You need a picture of what you're going after to keep that promise alive in your heart, to create a vision so you can make it through the difficult times.

The older you get, the more you choose calmness over conflict and distance over disrespect. Your mental health, peace, and happiness become your ultimate priority — over everything.

So many people are wasting the best years of their lives in places they don’t belong out of the fear of starting over. Know what you deserve. When a shoe doesn't fit, you must change the shoe, not the foot. Don't settle for a shoe that doesn't fit. It's not worth the pain.

Setting boundaries and being selective about "who" and "what" gets your time and energy is the missing piece to reclaiming your peace of mind and ultimately your focus.

May you manifest a calm love with someone who hears you, sees you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. Someone who's loyal, openly communicates, and creates a caring, safe space to heal, grow, and bloom together. A love you never have to heal from.

Take chances, make mistakes. That's how you grow. Pain nourishes your courage. You have to fail in order to practice being brave. Don't allow your past or present condition to control you. It's just a process that you're going through to get you to the next level.

One day, you'll look back and realize your timing was perfect, and why everything happened the way it did: to protect you, guide you, and redirect you to where you were always meant to be. Trust the process of your path, your evolution, and your growth—it's all divine timing.

One day, you'll look back and realize your timing was perfect, and why everything happened the way it did: to protect you, guide you, and redirect you to where you were always meant to be. Trust the process of your path, your evolution, and your growth—it's all divine timing.

It is always difficult to make that first step in breaking off unhealthy emotional attachment. But the threat of being alone is intimidating to your sense of well-being. Breaking off an unhealthy emotional attachment starts with you recognizing that you truly want to be happy.

Choose to live from a place of faith and not a place of fear. When you’re in peace, that’s a position of power. When you know God is in control, you’re going to be strong, you’re going to feel a force sustaining you.~Joel Osteen

Walk away from people who put you down. Walk away from fights that will never be resolved. Walk away from trying to please people who will never see your worth. The more you walk away from things that poison your soul, the healthier you will be.

Stop making yourself easily available for people who never prioritise you. Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. Don't waste it on someone that doesn't see your value.

🤍 Heal and let go. Don’t become like the people who hurt you. Don't hold onto hurtful patterns, heal to pass on more love and less pain.

Maturity is healing and unlearning your own toxic traits, so you don't become like the people that traumatized you.

Normalize being ok with letting people think whatever they want about you. The idea that we will be liked, validated or approved of by everybody is an illusion. Our mental health, peace, and happiness is more important than other people's acceptance, opinions or perceptions of us.

Allow people to have their moods, and allow those moods to have nothing to do with you. What they do is not a reflection of you. Their actions represent them and where they're at in their growth. It's a good practice to not relate other people's internal wars back to yourself.

In this new month of February, may the Lord elevate you beyond your dreams, and may you prosper and flourish🙏🏽

Don't let them manipulate you by deflecting and avoiding accountability for their actions. You deserve so much better. when they flip the script on you, that's your sign to step away.

Gaslighting is when they repeatedly trigger your mental health and nervous system, then blame you for how you react...but never accept accountability, or discuss their disrespect.

Don’t go into a new year with an old mindset. As the calendar is changing, God is sending freshness: fresh favor, fresh attitudes, fresh vision. You’re going to see things more clearly.

🤍 Everyone deserves someone you can feel safe to communicate openly and honestly with.

You deserve a calm love with someone who sees you, hears you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. You deserve someone who brings you peace, calmness, and consistency. A safe space with someone who brings out your soft side – not your survival side.

As a new day unfolds, may it bring you joy, peace, and countless blessings. May your path be filled with positivity, and may you have the strength to overcome any challenges that come your way🙏

Choose happiness by making a conscious decision each day to approach it with a positive mindset and proactive attitude. Don't wait for circumstances to dictate your day, decide to make it a good one.

Happiness doesn’t automatically happen. It’s a choice we have to make. You can’t wait to see what kind of day it’s going to be; you have to decide what kind of day it’s going to be.

When you're a good person with pure intentions you don't lose anyone – they lose you.Stay true to yourself. If someone chooses to leave, it's their loss, not yours.

Reflect on past challenges, acknowledge the strength and peace you've found, and trust that, even in difficult times, there is unseen support carrying you forward, appreciate the resilience within yourself and have faith in the journey ahead.

HOPE, LOVE, PATIENCE. These are three cooperative powers that will cause your faith to move mountains in your life.

How many times has God carried you and you didn’t know it? You can look back now and see He carried you through the sickness. You had strength that you never felt. He carried you through the loss. It was painful, but you felt peace. Somehow you were able to keep moving forward.

As you begin this new day, may you find strength in challenges, joy in accomplishments, and peace in moments of stillness🙏

David said in Psalm 68, “Praise the Lord our God. Each day, He carries us in His arms.” You may have situations that are too much for you, but God is saying, “Don’t worry; I’m going to carry you.”

Sometimes a break offers valuable insights about ourselves and our relationships. Whether it's a chance to cherish the connection or to appreciate the peace, it's all part of the journey. 🌟

Sometimes distance can help you see things more clearly.

Taking a break from somebody will either make you realize how much you truly love and miss them, or how much you truly love your peace without them.

You will go no further than you think you can go. You will be no more valuable, you will live no more securely, confidently, than how valuable you think you are.

You must understand: Your potential is limited by your own beliefs. Your worth, your security, your confidence all hinge on how highly you perceive yourself. Act now!

Recognize your own value, believe in your capabilities, and cultivate a positive self-perception. Your thoughts about yourself play a crucial role in determining the extent of your achievements and the quality of your life.

You actually need friends who will put you on to opportunities, without the fear of you getting ahead of them.

Real friends that'll mention your name in a room where opportunities are being tabled. Real friends who are jealous free, whose interests are in pursuing challenges and not competition.

Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher. Surround yourself with good people who encourage and love you. There are always ups and downs, no matter how successful you are.

You actually need friends who will put you on to opportunities, without the fear of you getting ahead of them.

Boundaries are the pillars of self-respect. Relationships thrive when there's a balance of give and take, and yet, it's crucial to recognize when the scale tips too far. Nurture relationships that honor your worth, and let go of those that compromise your dignity.

A woman's greatest strength lies in her readiness to walk away. While some may counsel staying no matter what, remember that if someone disrespects you, choosing to walk away is an act of self-worth.

We are always teaching other people how to treat us even if we don't realize it. It's very important especially in the beginning of a relationship to not tolerate bad behavior. Stand firm in your power and boundaries. 💪

Don’t let anyone take advantage of your kindness. Know your worth, set boundaries, and walk away from disrespect.

Most relationships taught me the more chances you give a person, the less they value you.They aren't scared to lose you because they know no matter what, you won't walk away. Never let anyone get comfortable with disrespecting you.Love yourself and choose distance over disrespect. Earn your respect.

Normalize not forcing connections. If people don't see the value in having you by their side, don't try to convince them. Place value on ur self💯 This is a basic principle of self respect🙌📌

Nothing kills a man faster than his own thoughts. The hardest prison to escape is your own mind.