it costs way too much to run LLMs locally

Y'ALL ARE MISSING OUT ON ALL THE DRAMA

Life would have compounded so hard if I had been as good at things in my 20s and 30s as I am in my 40s. I was good at my job, sure, but I’m an incredible generalist now man what the hell. I used to be like “just planted a tree need a nap”. Literally incomprehensible to me now.

Mixed together some dough during my lunch break. It should be a nice surprise for my wife when she comes home. An afternoon delight.

toddler breakfast

Another simple thing I’d not thought of- Friend was doing a “2024 miles in 2024” challenge. Told her I simply don’t have time most days to run 6 miles at a time. She said “that’s why I break it up into 2 to 3 shorter runs”.

I was on a call with another principal engineer and I said "okay we both have that other call now" and they said "you don't have to go to every meeting you're invited to" and I admit I had seriously not considered just ignoring invites. But honestly no other way to scale.

My 10 year old yelled at me yesterday. I was angry and hurt, and wanted to ensure she didn't do it again. Unlike our parents' generation, I don't hit my kids, so I had to resort to making unkindness highly inconvenient.

in the 9-5 world right now, admitting you used ai to do your job is like when people first started using dating apps

didn't think this day would come so soon but i've canceled claude and am going back to chatgpt to be clear this is about the chat ui. i already use claude-3.x-sonnet via my ide (and people are saying to give gemini 2.5 a shot).

Of all the things I’ve tried to improve the quality & amount of sleep I get, the one that works best is just going to sleep earlier It’s just hard when there’s so much to do!

china can remain irrational longer than america can remain solvent

Invited a teammate to review a 1-page architecture plan with me at 9am, so here I am still writing it

Watched a video where this guy (Mario Tomic) talked about a "strategic calorie buffer". He eats a smaller breakfast + lunch, and saves up 50% of the calorie budget for dinner because it's easier to make up a deficit than going "oh crap I have 150 cals left". I like it.

I wish Bluesky supported long form content so I don’t have to artificially break up posts into threads. I think that has ultimately been a good decision on Twitter (though I think it’s only a thing for paid users).

my current disastrous experience with vibe-coding is that it's been really good for creating crud apps and singular pages that contain all necessary context but i've given up on building complex artifacts.

Opening up the mysql console after a weekend with mongodb

“do you know how much you owe this year honey?” — my accountant I thought it might be bad but when she called me honey I knew I was fucked.

Last week I picked up some grab n go sandwiches at an airport store and the cashier said “please note that we are paid $2.13 per hour plus tips as you consider the next question” before turning the ipad toward me. So brazen that I was caught off-guard & made him repeat himself.

last night my 10yo came over to me with the nintendo ds & she had beat my time at rainbow road then she ran around screaming “THE BEST PART WAS THE LOOK ON HIS FACE” i’m going to take the day off while you’re at school you little shit

gas is so cheap in puerto rico now THANK YOU PRESIDENT TRUMP!!!

I want to do a "a day in the life" video but it looks like so much freaking work setting up and moving around a tripod over and over.

It’s my wife’s birthday. I asked what she wants and she said our beautiful marriage already overwhelms her in all the ways she could possibly think of. So as a treat, I’m giving her a new washing machine. Very disappointed that Best Buy is refusing to gift wrap it.

Everyone is always talking about how you’re dumb for wasting money on Doordash, or how Doordash is crucial if you’re disabled. But today I was driving around town and my 7yo wanted boba and I just didn’t care to try to find parking so I got it chauffeured to my front door.

my wife does this thing now and then where she'll say "i need a timeout. they're your kids now," and then disappear for 30 mins to an hour to read a book.

Just ran a 10K race that I registered for...last night 😅

Took the day off to hang out with the baby. This is my favorite age (< 2), they’re so goddamn cute. They’re such little buddies, don’t talk back yet, they’ll go along with whatever you want. Just left the playground, tacos next, then maybe go feed goats and chickens, idc.

Rust are Go are fascinating because between the two, Go is the language of choice for people who build things and Rust is the language of choice for people who like to spend their time writing Medium articles on how everyone should use Rust.

man breakfast

IDEs used to be so boring (non derogatory) and now I find myself hitting restart to update multiple times a day (also non derogatory)

TSLA is just on sale, guys 🤡🥲

I don’t think I’m going to go to a coworking space ever again. 1. smells I didn’t like 🐟 2. chatty people making friends (forgot my headphones at home) 3. missed my giant monitors (single monitor life is dumb) 4. missed my snacks 5. missed my wife and baby 6. no treadmill

I never thought this would ever happen to me but here I am at a coworking space and someone is microwaving fish

kids are so easy to entertain

you don't realize how good claude is until you ask gpt to refactor something for you

Kids dropped off at school. I think I’ll stop at the gym and get in a quick run and climb before I start my day! *buzz* You’ve been invited to #​inc-sev3-12345-critical-service-not-responding-2025-03-03

every social network right now seems to be like a different big city and your experience is either that you go through enjoying the attractions and amazing food or hating everything and trying not to get stabbed/slapped same city, different experiences for different people

People really don’t want to hear this and want to pretend like LLMs are a temporary fad or something. Even with identical education, someone using AI will outcompete someone not. I use them all the time to navigate bureaucracy, write code, and at this moment am planning a vacation with Claude.

the north carolina state fair just *does* this anyway without anyone's permission

this is so dumb. you’re getting paid 900k, learn to DELEGATE. hire an assistant to go to your meetings and a nanny to go to therapy with your wife.

this is the kind of targeted marketing I'm super into

> are you sure that your code is actually running on stage > yes > are you suuuuuuuuuuuuuure? > yes > let's redeploy just for fun > oh, my code wasn't running on stage

It's only President Trump's 9th day in office and he's already started to lower prices on the stock market! 🚀🔥📉

[wife unaware that her entire week is about to be ruined] 10: mom what’s a whore?

Going to individual restaurants has increasingly become a disappointing experience but if you take your family to a food court you can disappoint them four different ways

You know how sometimes an app is just perfectly quiet for so long and then you find out ah crap it was broken? It’s almost better to get a false alarm page every few hours so you know it works. That’s also how I feel about babies who sleep in til 930.

hello and welcome to inauguration bingo to play this game, gather your friends, a bottle of liquor, and shot glasses every time he says one of these words or phrases, take a drink every time you get bingo, take a drink if he says “I have a dream” you must finish the bottle

ran into my sister who was in full makeup and I was like who the f are you, is this what you normally look like??? you think you know someone almost became one of those “you don’t need makeup, you are beautiful without makeup” dudes

I’m going to flash all y’all every single day

[on a call with a partner team at a tech company] thank you for your microservice 🫡