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Research finds that sharing your sexual turn-ons tends to strengthen intimacy and satisfaction; however, focusing on your turn-offs has the opposite effect. This may be because emphasizing your dislikes (instead of your likes) can easily sound like criticism. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/ever...

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How to Ask for What You Want in Bed (And Not Kill the Mood) Want a hotter, closer sex life? Science says focus on your turn-ons, not your turn-offs. Here’s how to talk about sex without killing the mood. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/everyone-on-top/202509/how-to-ask-for-what-you-want-in-bed-and-not-kill-the-mood