Deaf kids are often graded on their ability to survive hearing environments—not on what they know. #deafeducation

Parents will cross state lines, cancel work, spend thousands on speech therapy-but won't learn 10 signs. A Deaf child notices. They always notice.

One angle that isn’t talked about much is how decision fatigue isn’t only about depletion. It’s also about inequality. People with fewer resources or support systems often face far more decisions in a day.

IMAGINE THIS: More than 90% of hearing parents ask for interpreters to talk with their Deaf children in therapy sessions, because the parents don’t know ASL. 😢

Double pain lives in many Deaf men: Masculinity says, “Don’t feel.” Audism says, “Don’t sign.” The cost of surviving both is heavy.

Midlife isn't falling apart; it's the soul finally getting your attention.

Doctors don’t blink when hearing adult children speak for their aging parents. But when Deaf adult children ask for an interpreter, access is denied, with the dismissive response, “You are not the patient.” Caregiving is caregiving; it should not be treated as less valid just because we need ASL.

Brighter Strides ABA (2023) and Advanced Autism (2023) found increased vulnerable narcissistic traits in adults with ASD without intellectual disabilities. This raises questions about autism, narcissism, and their role in internalizing symptoms. More research is needed to understand these.

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Courage over comfort. Compassion over shame. Curiosity over judgment.

Kindness is suicide prevention.