Stop shaming yourself, just because you're different. You don't need to fit into some box, to have a great ENM relationship. It's not about being: - Poly, or - Open, or - Swingers You get to decide what works for you. You gotta remember: All labels are wrong. Some are helpful.

“I Could Never Share My Partner.” You already do. 🔹 Emotionally (friends, family, co-workers) 🔹 Mentally (crushes, daydreams, fantasies) 🔹 Digitally (OnlyFans, thirst traps, celebrity crushes) ENM just makes it conscious. You don’t own your partner. You experience them.

You: “I’d love to explore this fantasy with you... But only if it turns you on too.” That one sentence? It changes the whole tone. Now it’s not pressure. It’s partnership.

Your sex life doesn’t need more positions. It needs more courage. Most couples assume adventure comes from: toys or techniques. But the real spark? Risking vulnerability. Sharing a fantasy, breaking a routine, daring to be seen. That's the real gasoline for your bedroom.