She Bop
@sheboptheshop.bsky.social
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Sex toy boutique for every body Portland, Oregon
https://linktr.ee/sheboptheshop
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If youāre a sex educator or sex worker or just like sex, say hi below! Weāre new here and we want to find our people
11 months ago
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The difference between a sting and a thud is the difference between a question and a statement. Our paddles ask. Our floggers declare. What do you prefer?
about 19 hours ago
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A good collar isn't a constraint; it's a declaration. What does yours say?
2 days ago
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Sometimes people treat subs as if they're degrading themselves. But your submission isn't about being weak. It's about being selective with where you place your immense trust.
3 days ago
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What's your favorite impact toy? A) Flogger B) Paddle C) Crop D) Just a hand! ā
4 days ago
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Celebrating
#Kinktober
as a solo explorer? Self-bondage with safety release mechanisms and sensation play on yourself are amazing ways to learn your preferences.
5 days ago
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New to the community? Welcome! š
#Kinktober
can feel overwhelming, but everyone starts somewhere. Our DMs are a judgment-free zone for any questions. Or visit either of our locations, and our qualified staff will be happy to help.
6 days ago
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Subs, there is immense strength in surrender. Your devotion is a gift. Make sure it's earned.
7 days ago
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Subs, the most powerful word in your vocabulary isn't "please." It's "red." Never forget the power you hold, even on your knees.
7 days ago
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Kink and disability absolutely go together! We proudly carry adaptive toys and tools, and we're happy to help you find what works for your body.
8 days ago
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#Kinktober
is for everyone! Regardless of your gender, orientation, relationship style, or experience level, your journey of exploration is valid.
8 days ago
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Where are all the switches who command the room and then surrender to the sheets?! We š¤ you all
9 days ago
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POLL: What's your
#Kinktober
vibe? A) Soft & Sensual (blindsfolds, silk) B) Impact & Power (floggers, cuffs) C) Mind Games (sensation, roleplay) D) All of the above!
10 days ago
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What's one kink or fantasy you've been curious about but haven't explored yet? Share below (no judgment!).
11 days ago
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Let's build a scene together! We'll start: ~The room was lit only by candlelight, and the first item they reached for was...~ Okay, your turn, add the next line in the comments!
12 days ago
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#Kinktober
product highlight: Premium leather cuffs. Why leather? It's durable, comfortable, and molds to your body over time. An investment in years of play.
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Cuff Set
These luxury bondage cuffs are designed for comfort and longevity. They are handmade of English leather in oxblood with a deerskin inner lining.
https://www.sheboptheshop.com/cuff-set.html
13 days ago
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Thinking about exploring temperature play? Start with a glass or metal toy that can be warmed in water or cooled in the fridgeānever the freezer!
#Kinktober
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Guide to Stainless Steel Toys ā Shebop
While most of the toys we carry at She Bop are made fromĀ siliconeĀ and ABS plastic, there are a number of other body-safe materials we have in the shop that pique the interest of our customers. One ofā¦
https://www.blog.sheboptheshop.com/blog/stainless-steel
14 days ago
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Rope Safety 101: Never use craft rope! Always have safety shears within reach. Respect the nerves and blood flow.
#Kinktober
#Shibari
#Bondage
15 days ago
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Aftercare isn't optional, it's essential. Whether it's cuddles, water, a snack, or quiet conversation, planning for aftercare is part of planning the scene.
#Kinktober
#Aftercare
16 days ago
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Ever wondered about the difference between a flogger and a paddle? It's all about thud vs. sting! We're breaking down sensation play basics all month long.
#Kinktober
17 days ago
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#KinktoberTip
: Before trying any new scene, have a conversation about hard limits, soft limits, and a safe word. Green/Yellow/Red is a classic for a reason! š¢š”š“
18 days ago
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To all the Doms: Your aftercare is non-negotiable. Your sub's trust is your most valuable asset. Protect it fiercely.
19 days ago
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Kinktober was designed to be educational, playful, inclusive, and engaging. The goal is to celebrate exploration in a safe, consensual, and fun way.
20 days ago
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Happy
#Kinktober
! š This month is all about exploration, and that always starts with two things: Consent and Communication. Let's keep it safe, sane, and consensual!
20 days ago
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This little device has been flying off our shelves! The Dame Dip 2 is perfect for solo play or adding a buzz to partnered fun. Come feel the magic! āØ
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Dame Dip
Simple, sleek, and approachable.
https://www.sheboptheshop.com/dame-dip.html
21 days ago
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Aging is a natural part of life, and pleasure doesn't have an expiration date. We have products perfect for exploring new sensations at any age.
21 days ago
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Masturbation isn't a substitute for partnered sex; it's a vital practice of self-love and understanding your own body. It's fundamental.
22 days ago
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Queer-owned and queer-friendly. We see you, we support you, and weāre here to help you find exactly what brings you joy. š
23 days ago
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Celebrating you exactly as you are today. Your body is an instrument of pleasure, not something to be fixed.
23 days ago
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Pleasure has no gender, no orientation, and no "right" way to look. Our store is a safe, welcoming space for EVERY body and every story.
#AllAreWelcome
24 days ago
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Tired of loud toys? The Womanizer Enhance is famously quiet. You could use it in a library (but maybe don't). š¤«
#DiscreetDesign
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Womanizer Enhance
Womanizer air technology + We-Vibe vibrational motor = pure heaven!
https://www.sheboptheshop.com/womanizer-enhance.html?id=113996139&quantity=1
25 days ago
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Self-care isn't just face masks and bubble baths. Sometimes, it's honoring your own desires and taking time for self-exploration. You deserve it.
25 days ago
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Exploring sensation play? Start with a feather, then maybe a silk scarf, then a flogger. It's all about building anticipation and communicating every step of the way.
#KinkFriendly
26 days ago
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Not all bodies are the same, and neither are sex toys!
26 days ago
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Let's talk lube ingredients! We're proud to carry brands that avoid parabens, glycerin, and glycol. Your body deserves the good stuff.
#BodySafe
#CleanLube
Learn more here:
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Lube 101: Slippery When Wet ā Shebop
Slick, wet, and wonderful āĀ lubricantĀ is a sexual accessory that should always be kept close at hand. Lube makes all sex acts frictionless and more fun and is absolutely essential for anal sex (theā¦
https://www.blog.sheboptheshop.com/blog/lube-101
26 days ago
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A true Dom's most important tool isn't a flogger; it's patience. But the flogger is a very close second.
27 days ago
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Communication is the best lubricant. š¬ Talking to your partner(s) about desires and boundaries can feel awkward, but itās a skill that gets easier with practice. Start with "I feel..."
28 days ago
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Mythbuster Monday: "Vibrators can desensitize you." FALSE! When used responsibly, they simply help you learn what you like. It's about exploration, not limitation.
29 days ago
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Anal cleanliness tip: Showering beforehand helps, but the rectum isnāt sterile. A quick external wash is fineāavoid harsh douching, which can irritate. If bit of a mess happens, itās normalājust clean up and carry on!
about 2 months ago
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Sex doesnāt have to end with an orgasm. Intimacy, connection, and exploration are just as valuable. š
2 months ago
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Orgasm equality matters. If pleasure is one-sided, itās time for a conversation. Everyone deserves to feel good. š¦
#FairPlay
2 months ago
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Fantasy is freedom. Your turn-ons are valid, as long as theyāre safe, consensual, and bring you joy. There's no harm in having dirty thoughts.
2 months ago
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You deserve pleasure, no matter your age, gender, or relationship status.
2 months ago
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Regular gyno check-ups, STI testing, and safer sex practices are acts of self-love. š©ŗ
2 months ago
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Masturbation is healthy, natural, and a great way to learn what you love. Don't let anyone make you feel ashamed for knowing how to feel good.
2 months ago
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Thereās no "normal" when it comes to desire. Your libido is unique to youāown it without shame. š«
2 months ago
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News flash: You don't need to desire sex every day or every week. There's no amount of sex that makes you "normal." Stop listening to people who set arbitrary standards for others.
2 months ago
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Talk about desires, limits, and fantasies openlyāit makes everything hotter. š„ If you don't know where to start, we have great book recommendations and classes to help you open up.
2 months ago
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Aftercare matters! Post-anal, check in with your partner. Some tenderness is normal, but pain, bleeding, or ongoing discomfort could mean injury. Hydrate, rest, and cuddle.
2 months ago
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We carry Lorals (wearable dental dams) which are fantastic because you don't even have to hold them in place during rimming
2 months ago
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Anal sex prevents pregnancy, but *not* STIs. Use condoms to protect against infections like HIV, HPV, and herpes. Dental dams are great for rimming too!
2 months ago
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