Suli Qyre
@suliqyre.com
📤 116
📥 27
📝 823
Making art, writing Fragmentarium, and curating quotations for
@philosophybits.com
suliqyre.com
“Echoes, shadows, inversions, fragments — this much writing can do. But the whole enchilada lives on a different plane.” — Zadie Smith, “The I Who Is Not Me”
about 14 hours ago
0
3
2
“To see that everything you experience is both a part of you and not you at all is what it means to be empty. When you are empty, you are free. You allow everything to arise and depart in its own time.” Read more:
suliqyre.substack.com/p/being-empt...
loading . . .
“Being Empty”, etc. (341-345)
When you are empty, you are free.
https://suliqyre.substack.com/p/being-empty-etc
about 19 hours ago
0
3
1
“If only some eternal book existed, primed for our enjoyment and whims, no less inventive in the populous morning as in the secluded night, oriented toward all hours of the world. Your favorite books, reader, are like the rough drafts of that book without a final reading.” — Jorge Luis Borges
1 day ago
2
12
3
“Criticism always adds and never subtracts. It is itself a kind of creative practice, and every critique is also its own creation.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/critic...
loading . . .
340. Criticism Is Creative
A successful artwork shows us something we haven’t seen before. It does this by drawing our attention to an aspect of our experience through a representation of that experience in a particular medium....
https://suliqyre.com/posts/criticism-is-creative/
2 days ago
1
7
2
“We have lost all sense of living normally, simply, directly. To get back to that normality, that simplicity, that directness, you cannot follow methods, you cannot merely become automatic machines... (1/2)
3 days ago
1
3
1
“Where there is still room for awareness to grow, there is also room for suffering to arise again from attachment.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/despis...
loading . . .
339. Despising Attachment
The power of joy can be astonishing. Everything that was once dark and depressing is suddenly transformed into light and purpose, and I feel more capable than ever before. I can easily start to think ...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/despising-attachment/
3 days ago
0
3
1
“Ordinarily we value a work of art because of the seriousness and dignity of what it achieves. … But there are other creative sensibilities besides the seriousness (both tragic and comic) of high culture and of the high style of evaluating people. (1/2)
4 days ago
1
6
1
“She knows she can't do everything. She isn't asking for supernatural powers. What bothers her is the imposed requirement to exclude. She doesn't want to abandon things or people. She wants to stay open to everything that might be possible for her.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/tired-...
loading . . .
338. Tired Of Choosing
She is always forced to choose. Between this job and that job. Between this love and that love. Between this project and that project. Between this life and that life. But she doesn’t want only this o...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/tired-of-choosing/
5 days ago
0
2
2
“To be scrupulous. Reject everything about the real that does not become true. (The dreadful reality of the false.)” — Robert Bresson, Notes on the Cinematograph
6 days ago
0
2
1
“The problem is that we cannot see why the other ought to receive compassion. We are unable to see them as one of us, so they remain an other, an outsider not entitled to anything.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/how-we...
loading . . .
337. How We Treat Others
We want to be treated well by others. We feel we deserve to be treated well and that others should be obliged to treat us this way. We don’t care what they might think about us, as long as they always...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/how-we-treat-others/
6 days ago
0
3
2
“Narrative exists as an extraordinary complex of expectations. … The sense of expectations violated can be just as pleasurable, or even more so, than the sense of expectations fulfilled.” — Samuel R. Delany, “Some Remarks on Narrative and Technology”
7 days ago
0
1
1
“Greater awareness necessarily means greater compassion, and compassion demands action. To act from compassion is to use every last tool in whatever ways it must be used to meet needs and reduce suffering.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/every-...
loading . . .
336. Every Last Tool
Being aware is not without its challenges. Greater awareness necessarily means greater compassion, and compassion demands action. Compassion is not content with merely seeing how the world already is ...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/every-last-tool/
7 days ago
0
4
2
“I think that knowledge enslaves us, that at the base of all knowledge there is a servility, the acceptation of a way of life wherein each moment has meaning only in relation to another or others that will follow it.” — Georges Bataille, The Unfinished System of Nonknowledge
8 days ago
0
5
3
“That so many are struggling with unmet needs means that significant changes are required. Changes not just to individuals but also to the systems we have constructed that actively work against compassion.” Read more:
suliqyre.substack.com/p/every-last...
loading . . .
“Every Last Tool”, etc. (336-340)
To act from compassion is to use every last tool in whatever ways it must be used to meet needs and reduce suffering.
https://suliqyre.substack.com/p/every-last-tool-etc
8 days ago
0
4
1
“All narratives were inevitably the work of narrators, male or female, who by nature, by form, could be only a fragment among fragments of reality...” — Elena Ferrante, In the Margins
9 days ago
0
4
2
“Suffering is present because I'm attached to something. It might be a desire for success, an aversion to a dreadful outcome, or a belief about what I'm supposed to do. All of these intentions are similar in terms of the suffering they can produce through attachment.”
suliqyre.com/posts/stress...
loading . . .
335. Stress As Suffering
There are always so many things to do and so little time in which to do them. When the time I have available is significantly less than the time it will realistically take me to complete all of my tas...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/stress-as-suffering/
9 days ago
0
3
1
“The imperfect is the tense of fascination: it seems to be alive and yet it doesn’t move: imperfect presence, imperfect death; neither oblivion nor resurrection; simply the exhausting lure of memory.” — Roland Barthes, A Lover’s Discourse
10 days ago
0
3
2
“The artist is, of course, accustomed to taking risks. Everything they make is a risk, for there is no way of knowing whether or not their creation will be any good before it is complete, and no way of being certain that others will appreciate it once it is.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/outrag...
loading . . .
334. Outrageous Ideas
Almost every artist has more ideas than they can use. The ones that get used tend to be those that are the most beautiful or meaningful, while also being feasible in the medium that the artist works. ...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/outrageous-ideas/
10 days ago
0
4
1
“God is not Time; God generates or urges all things into development that the plan completes itself in continual creation. All we know is that things happen. (1/2)
11 days ago
1
1
1
“I thought I was being told something that had actually happened when in fact it was a fabrication... But then I wondered if this meant anything in the end. The truth of what had been shown had not changed. It was true in the way all fiction is true.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/true-t...
loading . . .
333. True Tales
The book I was reading seemed to be a kind of travelogue. It was part of a series that recounted the experiences of the author as he explored the many places he visited. At one point in the book, the ...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/true-tales/
12 days ago
0
4
1
“The need to belong is not just a product of weakness and a need to join forces with something or someone stronger than myself. Often the intense desire to belong has its roots in my own strength — (1/2)
13 days ago
1
2
1
“A human being is always partial, always pulled in some dominant direction, because their awareness is incomplete. The inevitable result is that attachments form and suffering is produced.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/total-...
loading . . .
332. Total Awareness
Total awareness is the ability to see everything from every possible perspective in every moment. It is not merely adopting a balanced position between two opposing perspectives, but to be capable of ...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/total-awareness/
13 days ago
0
3
2
“At the moment when desire ceases and contemplation, pure seeing, and self-surrender begin, everything changes. … For indeed contemplation is not scrutiny or criticism, it is nothing but love. It is the highest and most desirable state of our souls: undemanding love.” — Hermann Hesse
14 days ago
1
3
1
“If you were told that you cannot alter what is required and you must do exactly this, you would shift to denial. You'd declare that you don't actually need to do it. You'd assert that you are the master of your own life. You'd proclaim that you make your own choices.”
suliqyre.com/posts/what-y...
loading . . .
331. What You Must Do
If someone you didn’t know told you that you absolutely must do something, you wouldn’t believe them. You’d be deeply skeptical of their claim. If the person seemed especially serious, you might ask f...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/what-you-must-do/
14 days ago
0
2
1
“In the end, you're right about at least one thing: no one can tell you what to do. Only you can see for yourself what you must do. Only then will you be willing to take it on as your own personal necessity.” Read more:
suliqyre.substack.com/p/what-you-m...
loading . . .
“What You Must Do”, etc. (331-335)
Only you can see for yourself what you must do.
https://suliqyre.substack.com/p/what-you-must-do-etc
15 days ago
0
3
1
“In short, the medium is the message signifies not only the end of the message, but also the end of the medium. There are no longer media in the literal sense of the term … (1/2)
16 days ago
1
3
2
“To write for the future is to write for a form of life that does not yet exist. We have to imagine what the cultural and linguistic norms of the future might be like.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/the-wr...
loading . . .
330. The Writing Of The Future
As we discover more of the world and ourselves, the norms we usually follow begin to feel stagnant and outdated. We feel an urge to replace these norms with ones more compatible with the life and cult...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/the-writing-of-the-future/
16 days ago
0
2
1
“We write stories about imaginary people in imaginary situations. Then we publish them (because they are, in their strange way, acts of communication — addressed to others). And then people read them and call up and say, But who are you? Tell us about yourself! (1/2)
17 days ago
1
5
2
“A desire might even feel more compelling than a need, because it is definite, clear, and tells me exactly what to do. I like the certainty the desire provides, so I give myself over to it and I allow it to take control.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/desire...
loading . . .
329. Desires And Needs
I feel a strong need for something, but I cannot have it right away. I have to think about how to get it, and through practical reasoning, come up with a plan to obtain it. Once I have a plan, I also ...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/desires-and-needs/
17 days ago
0
2
2
“Everything she is to him could never be reduced to mere reasons. It could never be captured by words, not in this language or in any language. There is always more to his love, always something beyond what he could say.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/unjust...
loading . . .
328. Unjustified Love
He doesn’t know why she always asks him to tell her why he loves her. Maybe it’s because she has doubts about the strength of his love or its durability. Maybe it’s because she doesn’t understand why ...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/unjustified-love/
19 days ago
0
2
1
“In television, images are projected at you. You are the screen. The images wrap around you. You are the vanishing point.” — Marshall McLuhan, The Medium is the Massage (with Quentin Fiore)
20 days ago
0
3
2
“We hate the possibility of not understanding because it seems to suggest there are parts of the world that are somehow beyond us. We might even feel like we are being kept from learning a secret that everyone else knows.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/to-not...
loading . . .
327. To (Not) Understand
When we first encounter a complicated artwork, confusion can dominate. We aren’t sure what the piece is supposed to be or what it is trying to tell us. Questions come to mind, but no answers. If we ca...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/to-not-understand/
20 days ago
0
2
1
“To be able really to listen, one should abandon or put aside all prejudices, preformulations, and daily activities. When you are in a receptive state of mind, things can be easily understood; you are listening when your real attention is given to something.” — Jiddu Krishnamurti, Total Freedom
21 days ago
0
2
2
“To be able to meet our many needs, we have to allow ourselves freedom from our intentions, not by ignoring them or fighting them, but by seeing clearly how they produce suffering through attachment.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/the-hu...
loading . . .
326. The Human Superpower
Our ability to reflect is powerful. We can see ourselves in the context of the past we remember and the possible futures we imagine, which allows us to judge our past actions and plan our future actio...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/the-human-superpower/
21 days ago
0
1
1
“Reflective consciousness is not just powerful, it is a superpower, and as such, it is challenging to wield. Its power can easily overwhelm us and our entire lives can be taken over by its unrelenting judgments.” Read more:
suliqyre.substack.com/p/the-human-...
loading . . .
“The Human Superpower”, etc. (326-330)
Reflective consciousness is not just powerful, it is a superpower, and as such, it is challenging to wield.
https://suliqyre.substack.com/p/the-human-superpower-etc
22 days ago
0
4
1
“Though reading may not at first blush seem like an act of creation, in a deep sense it is. Without the enthusiastic reader, who is really the author’s counterpart and very often his most secret rival, a book would die.” — Henry Miller, The Books in My Life
23 days ago
0
2
1
“Having discovered value, the artist feels deeply that it must be shared and seen. Keeping this gem private would not be to gain something but to suffer a terrible loss.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/what-m...
loading . . .
325. What Must Be Shared
The artist is someone who notices. In a world that often appears to offer nothing new, the artist sees something that stands out. This special piece of reality has escaped the attention of others, but...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/what-must-be-shared/
23 days ago
0
3
1
“Beauty is, in some way, boring. Even if its concept changes through the ages … a beautiful object must always follow certain rules. A beautiful nose shouldn’t be longer than that or shorter than that, on the contrary, an ugly nose can be as long as the one of Pinocchio, (1/2)
24 days ago
1
2
2
“I need to argue for the truth carefully, because I risk accidentally defeating myself. Provocative declarations of victory will not change anyone's mind. Heavy-handed arguments will not encourage the kind of calm reflection that shifts judgments.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/effect...
loading . . .
324. Effective Arguments
When someone is wrong about something, I want to help them see the truth. I want to do this because I believe knowing the truth is an important part of living well. To convince the other of their erro...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/effective-arguments/
24 days ago
0
2
1
“What animates the novel is something wholly missing from these older narrative forms: the discovery of psychology, the transposition of motives into “experiences.” This passion for the documentation of “experience,” for facts, made the novel the most open of all art forms.” — Susan Sontag
25 days ago
1
1
2
“But when there is romance everything changes. Romance means tension between two living beings, each pulling the other in its own way, each striving for the life it desperately wants. The intricacy of the tension means that something new and exciting is always happening.” Read more:
loading . . .
323. Romantic Joy
The only thing that truly excites her is romance. Most of her life is not romantic. Most of it is like washing dishes. Dirty dishes have to be cleaned, rinsed, and dried. But clean dishes do not stay ...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/romantic-joy/
26 days ago
0
1
1
“I believe that truth has only one face: that of a violent contradiction.” — Georges Bataille, The Deadman
27 days ago
0
2
1
“To act from compassion does not require us to change our intentions, but only to allow ourselves adequate distance from them. Our intentions can then exist freely as the future-oriented entities they are, while we ourselves exist wholly in the present.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/intend...
loading . . .
322. Intended Futures
Even the best intentions can produce suffering. Even when our desires and beliefs are perfectly aligned with principles of care, consideration, and cooperation, we can suffer because of them. Intentio...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/intended-futures/
27 days ago
0
2
1
“I don’t have a word to say. So why don’t I shut up? But if I do not force out the word muteness will swallow me forever in waves. Word and form will be the board upon which I float atop billows of muteness.” — Clarice Lispector, The Passion According to G. H.
28 days ago
0
3
2
“We think that the only way to be happy is to amass resources, just like those with power over us. The result is that we build a culture of withholding, of always holding back, out of the relentless worry that we won't have enough to get what we want.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/a-cult...
loading . . .
321. A Culture Of Giving
We want to get what we want because we think it will make us feel better. Our rational goal is happiness, which we expect to achieve through the satisfaction of our desires. To get there, we will do w...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/a-culture-of-giving/
28 days ago
0
3
2
“Acting from compassion, we might not get what we want, but we do get what we need. Our culture is then transformed from one of withholding to one of giving.” Read more:
suliqyre.substack.com/p/a-culture-...
loading . . .
“A Culture Of Giving”, etc. (321-325)
Acting from compassion, we might not get what we want, but we do get what we need.
https://suliqyre.substack.com/p/a-culture-of-giving-etc
29 days ago
0
3
2
“Languages change—and the language of fiction changes as well. What was perceived as a violation yesterday is a sedimented expectation today. What was once an expectation is now to be honored only in the breach—or people will just giggle.” — Samuel R. Delany, “The Black Leather in Color Interview”
30 days ago
0
1
1
“It is by acting and failing that my awareness quickly expands. This is why I must take action, even though I know my awareness is incomplete. I cannot allow the chance of failure to paralyze me and inhibit the possibility that my actions will succeed.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/imperf...
loading . . .
320. Imperfect Acts
My awareness is always limited and never complete. If I pay attention to my experiences, then my awareness will continuously expand throughout my lifetime. But this is little consolation, because I mu...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/imperfect-acts/
30 days ago
0
1
1
“We draw ever closer to the surface of the screen; our gaze is, as it were, strewn across the image. We no longer have the spectator’s distance from the stage — all theatrical conventions are gone. (1/2)
about 1 month ago
1
1
1
“There is always more for us to see, and everything we believe could change in the future. This means we need to treat every text we read as open-ended, especially those that supply the conclusions we most desire.” Read more:
suliqyre.com/posts/desire...
loading . . .
319. Desired Conclusions
Not all texts conclude. Some meander through a range of perspectives, each providing a different way of looking at a question. Others tend to orbit a particular idea or theme, exploring it carefully t...
https://suliqyre.com/posts/desired-conclusions/
about 1 month ago
0
3
1
Load more
feeds!
log in