I WAS JUST ACCEPTED INTO MY FIRST WRITING RESIDENCY!!!!

This week on the Black Fat Femme Podcast, we are joined by the hilarious Tyreak Told You live, loud and in color from NYC. The dolls talk about moments they want to relive, events from 2025 that need to stay in 2025 and why flying out of JFK is NUTS.  Listen anywhere you get your podcasts!

Category is: MA realness!

Three hour delay at San Diego too!

This week your on @blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social we dive into the obsession America has with dating shows, talk about who is the real underrated queer horror icon (just in time for #Halloween) and discuss why our problematic fave might just be having the best year ever.  Listen now!

This week, the BFF's welcome Kristian A. Smith to the third seat to talk about the difference between church hurt & religious trauma. We also pay our respects to legends (rest well D'Angelo) and talk about why we are sick of people heckling Kamala.  Listen everywhere you get your podcasts!

What we saw today with “No Kings” was a rally, not a protest. Keep in mind that rally’s often help folks feel good about a particular message - and while the message is something, protest are meant to cause disruption. It’s about a demand/want for something to change.

When I sold my book, my first thought was “I can’t WAIT to do a book talk at Barnes & Nobles.” Today that dream came true! Head down and get your copy if you haven’t already. Hell, BUY ANOTHER ONE!

San Diego folks: Today. Barnes & Noble in Mira Mesa @ 4pm.

It’s giving book talk realness!

So I’ve accepted I’m never gonna be on that Out100 list. Cool.

Can we talk about my nails for a second tho?

My podcast won not one, but TWO Signal Awards. I literally can’t stop crying. This is truly the win I needed this week/month/year. A reminder: do the thing. Put it out. BET ON YOU. ALWAYS!

The way I can’t wait to dive into my chicken milk?!

This week on the @blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social dive into what Black shows from yesteryear made them feel the most seen, talk about why we love Bad Bunny and ask the million dollar question: who did the casting on this season of "Love is Blind"?

Friend just told me that one of Allstora’s book clubs has picked my book for the month of October. I don’t know why this made me emotional, but it did. Thank you to EVERY. SINGLE. PERSON. Who continues to remind me how important work & story is.

This week your BFF’s aren’t just talking about coming out, but we answer the more important question - what is life like after you do? Listen to, “It’s Okay to be Gay” everywhere you get your podcasts! 🎧

San Diego PEEPS: You asked for it - and now it’s here. Gonna be down to the Barnes & Noble down in Mira Mesa yapping about the book. Can’t wait to see you there! 📚

This week your besties are joined by the iconic social media doll @deandretheegiant to talk all things pop nostalgia, what iconic 2000’s items we miss and get down to the bottom of the important question, “which Black queer person was in Sister Act 2”?  Listen wherever you get your podcasts!

And now: a quick message from our sponsors - The Black Fat Femme pod is nominated for TWO @SignalAwards! Go vote now! (Thank you to everyone for your love and support!!!) 🌟 #blackfatfemme

This week your besties are joined by legendary king of eats Tim Chantarangsu to talk food, family and the importance of a good meal. We also do a tribute to “Send Foodz” because you know the dolls love to eat and put each of y’all on.  Listen anywhere you get your favorite podcast!

My podcast is a finalist for the 2025 Signal Awards! If you have it in your heart, please go vote for us. It would truly mean the world to me! vote.signalaward.com/PublicVoting...

Ready for tomorrow’s episode? Listen everywhere you get your favorite podcast!

What you believe is what you believe. Not what 👁️ believe. Remember that.

Woke up queer and Black again. What a privilege.

For new followers: Hi. Know I am not Candace Owens or Stacey Dash Black. I am very James Baldwin and Toni Morrison Black. Welcome. 🙂‍↔️

Welcome to the room. I’ve been here.

This week your besties are joined by our favorite cousin Jarrett Hill to break down the Jussie Smollett Netflix documentary. We also get into Black sub-culture and talk Labubu price gouging.  Listen on Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts.

Just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it didn’t happen.

Does anyone just randomly scream, “GIMME KISS, BIG DADDY YOU SO PRETTY?? SOO PRETTY!?”

If that man represents your type of Christianity, y’all can KEEP it.

Folks got real quiet when they identified the culprit.

‘I didn’t agree with everything Charlie Kirk said’ Please tell us, what…did you…agree…with?

You know who doesn’t deserve violence? Black people. Queer people. Brown people. Women. But yet, we somehow experience it every damn day in some form or fashion. That being said, I’m saving my empathy for the folks out here trying to make this world and life better.

Empathy? For a racist?

Grand closing.

This week your besties are joined by the Kang of digital content - the one who keeps the content live, loud and in color, @cxrodge.com. Listen to “Millennial Meltdown” out now on the @blackfatfemmepod.bsky.social!

LVN taking my vitals today: “You’ve lost weight. Did you do it natural?” When I tell you I fcking HATE the doctors office.

This week the BFF’s are joined by Mandi Money to discuss adulting, finances and why we should all be demanding a raise in this economy. Listen anywhere and everywhere you get your podcasts! 🎧

A labor of love to celebrate this Labor Day. Get your copy here online, at Barnes & Noble or at your local bookstore.

Quick message to the Fatphobes:

I hope when Trump (finally) goes to hell, Satan is trans and the hellfire is rainbow colored.

You know a neighbor is going to be gentrified when you see a bike lane and white ladies jogging.

Systemic racism is at the root of everything in this life and I hate it. I really, really hate it.

I really wish I could have helped make one of these Katrina docs. These stories are so powerful and so an important to me.

If someone got a plug, holla at me!

I cried on the way home because the little kid in me is so happy I can afford to get the toys I wanted.

I think imma name him Cole (from “Martin”). What y’all think?

Lil Nas X’s mental break is everything I write about. The world ain’t nice to Black queer people and we are suppose to just deal. Then people will see you struggling and STILL ask more of you. I’ve been there and take Effexor and Buspar daily to keep from going back there. Shits hard.

I truly miss the days of 2020 when white folks felt guilty enough to help make sure Black peoples bills were paid. I sure do miss it.