It's been a November of trial and tribulations; of love and loss and love through the loss of a loved one. Slowly, though, slowly I'm coming back to myself and to the things that give me joy and balance.

Just breathe.

Things I learned last night: 1) I very much adore receiving foot attention and reverence (will need to explore more to determine level of worship). 2) Topping for ballbusting is absolutely delightful! 3) My sadistic and ritual/protocol side may have just found a delightful new kink to explore.

Having grown up in the area, there is a difference between Beltway wealth and countryside wealth. Beltway wealth is about socio-political prestige and will follow trends; countryside wealth follows a weird mix of legacy and personal enjoyment. 0 to do with Twitter, all to do with business.

Wine, oyster tasting (from six different places), and an unexpected but delightful Instagram photo tag from a favorite photographer. Happy All Hallows Eve 🖤

"Habibi, come to reality!" 🇺🇸💄💋

Me, casually adding "Nazi uniforms are unacceptable" to the contentious replies to help the echo chambers keep focus on what's important: 🇺🇸💄💋

This time last year there was a Neo-Nazi rally just 20 mins outside of town; people were dropping White Supremacy 'join us' pamphlets (my friend got one); and harassing the local Synagogue. Now, actual Nazi regalia walking around assaulting people. www.reddit.com/r/Athens/com...

Oh, looked! It's the very HUMINT NatSec vulnerability I have been saying the AI and Big Tech Industry is seriously at risk to for years! In case anyone forgot: NAFO expansion is non-negotiable, and that includes the damn tunnels!! 🇺🇸💄💋

Just a reminder for folks heading to eXXXotica: make sure online businesses are in DMCA + 2257 compliance, and vet their claims of transparency.

Me, watching people with psyop training/background purposefully stoke social media issues for lolz and poking fun at people when they know we are destabilized:

It is amazing how when you point out to an adult industry business out for not being in legal compliance, how quick they are to block you, and then shift gears and attempt to patch-their website to appear in compliance. Watching it unfold in real time?

"Sex sells, no matter the economy. So how about we put a bit more work into protecting the selling of it? Because what I encountered yesterday should not be acceptable behavior in this industry. " www.xbiz.net/discussions/...

@exxxotica.bsky.social @avn.bsky.social might want to re-evaluate your promoting this platform. They initiated a DM with me. I asked for clarity on legal standing, they refused. They engaged in the public sphere, I asked publicly, see their behavior. This is not legal or safe for creators.

Heads Up For Content Creators: I was contacted by "cravebang.com" claiming to be based in ATL on X. They will allegedly be at @exxxotica.bsky.social this weekend. While they have a legal LLC, the address appears to be ripped, and they are not registered with DMCA nor 2257 Compliant. 1/3 ⬇️

I'm always amused by the patterning of when I get spam calls and when the influx of them occurs. For why are you so adamant about calling today, my darlings? Inquiring minds are curious.

Reflecting myself.

Dear Newer Adult Business asking me to collab, I pulled up your LLC Filing. Pretty sure you either ripped the address, or you want to put me in contact with the alleged business owner ASAP so that we can chat infosec. Just sayin': CEO's normally want privacy. Signed, An Educated Harlot

I think my favorite part of being an adult is the free creative reign I have over my spaces. Like turning the small third bedroom into a walk in closet that feels like a haunted theater dressing room 🖤

Finding myself contemplating the matter of BDSM and feeling emotional resonance as relational alignment. In particular: the need to maintain awareness that resonance is a reflection of self-state, and not actually a revelation of compatibility and connection.

Someone send me to get coffee and a pastry so I get out of bed.

If you are an s-type reaching out to Po-Dommes and are getting upset about rates or requests for tributes, it may behoove you to take a moment, step back, and seriously think about why you are upset that someone who has explicit process isn't breaking their process for you. If you don't want to...

Aside from me not liking monolithing in general, I think this rather a limited view and potentially insulting to those who have unique mobility abilities or inabilities. Service is just 'the action of helping or doing work for someone'. What is money but translated work/help in paper format?

Ever have a dream that you wake up from feeling a bit off kilter? Yea, not fun. Send chocolates.

Pen & Paper is mightier than the sword and cyber! Actually, hacking aside, I'm inspired to re-open a PO Box and require requests for playing in power or my services in education/personal growth to be mailed in; would foster intentionality from the start! www.bbc.com/news/article...

Cider and footie on the screen, with food on the way 🖤

Had dinner with a new client last night. He's been following me since pre-COVID, finally reached out, and was open about his struggles with being vulnerable and intimate. He talked about not feeling heard by his doctors and uncomfortable opening up to this therapists...

Taking today a bit slowly. Rather wish I had a service submissive around to pamper my feet and give me a massage.

I can't tell if I want, need some S+M time, or if I just need to go to Spa Land and spend some time doing hot-cold cycles... Honestly, probs both.

Just a baby girl taking care of her business.

Drip.

Blending in has never been my specialty.

This is the type of energy I am here for!!

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Ask me how I became a part of ChatGPT's top 0.1% users and what my plan for world domination is. (Answer: I drink, I know things, and I'm more interested in creating a fair and ethical world) 🥂

Things I'm against: Authoritarianism, Totalitarianisms, Dictatorship, Theocracy. Essentially, the things our Founding Fathers were seeking to prevent us from becoming and using philosophies of The Enlightenment to structure us away from.

"Islam is incompatible with western civilization!" ... ya'll really don't know anything about the Renaissance or the Medici Family or how the Western Enlightenment even came about, do you?

BDSM folks (particularly those that organize): Please, please, PLEASE get your organization and attendees informed and educated on information security protocols, how to protect PII, and how surveillance occurs. This was posted yesterday by a sitting Congressman.

Someone in the DC please go to 3rd Street, near the Capitol, and tell me if there actually is a golden statue of Trump holding bitcoin. If there is, erotic creatives: PLEASE impromptu parade down the mall. Dominatrix Melania Inauguration attire, Jackie O-Ring, and Lady Liberty Bounded. HIGH brow.

When in the course of desiring a glass of wine, you open a bottle, pour it through the aerator, sip it and find the taste to be unfortunate; the proper response is to make an immediate run to the store for a favored wine and a bouquet of flowers. -*is currently doing just that*-

Existential dread wasn't fixed by time at the barn, so I opted for the next best thing: an agreement with The Prince. Study him, and get rewarded. Refuse, get punished. Feeling less dreaded, more pleasured. I'm pragmatic like that.

I thought I deserved wine, but then I realized I deserve something better: Dark chocolate ice cream with a bit of dark fudge brownie with dark chocolate chips, in a handlebar mustache mug.

Every time I see these pop up I giggle and remember how/why this even became an Internet thing in the first place. ✨👨‍💻🧭🌐🕸️✨

Momma's don't let your babies grow up to be philosophers of violence, terrorism, and s3xuality -- we end up wondering where the red lines are.

"I knew I wanted to submit to you because you are a Domme and a submissive. You understand the need and desire to serve, and the need to guide properly. I knew you would be strict with me, but it was to bring out the best in me. I wanted that." Good. That's what I want.

You know, while I'm here... I am seeking a s-type male. Ideally, I would like to find someone local to me, however I am willing to consider traveling for the right dynamic. Chastity, obedience are delightful things to me; and him being skilled in massage and foot worship are lovely, too.

I apparently have a tendency to forget I have this account... Oopsie.

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